How many people are willing to rent a house and get married?
For women, marriage is an important thing in life. So how many women can accept renting a house and marrying their partners? According to an online survey, 46% of women said they were unwilling to rent a house to get married, and 2 1% said they could accept short-term renting, but they could not accept long-term renting after marriage. Why don't women want to rent a house and get married? Xiao He, who has been married for two years, said: Only when you have your own house can you feel at home. Xiao He thinks that it is not his own house, and there is always a feeling of relying on others. Not only can I not find a sense of belonging, but I also have no desire to decorate my home. This state is not suitable for marriage.
Men are obviously more open to renting a house to get married. According to the survey, less than 30% of men think that they must buy a house before they can get married. Xiaoli, who works as a designer in an advertising company on Jianghua Road, is a well-paid white-collar worker in Jiangmen. She has worked for more than three years and has hundreds of thousands of savings. But recently, because of the house problem, Xiao Li and his girlfriend have a little contradiction from time to time. Xiao Li is considering marrying his girlfriend. Xiao Li and his girlfriend have more than 200,000 savings and a large amount of provident fund every month. Economically speaking, Xiaoli belongs to a family that can afford a house. But Xiao Li is unwilling to join the army of house slaves. Xiao Li intends to start a career with the money in his hand. Xiao Li has Xiao Li's reason: it will take at least 30 years to pay for buying a house now. If you pay three or four thousand yuan a month for a house, the rest is just a little bit of life, and you can't do anything at all. By the time you pay, you will be in your fifties. Xiao Li is an enterprising person. He thinks the house will make him conservative. There are three or four thousand yuan of housing pressure every month, and I dare not do anything for fear of cutting off the supply. Such a day will be very timid. It is for this reason that Xiaoli and her girlfriend often quarrel. Xiaoli's girlfriend hopes to have a stable home after marriage. Miss Chen disagrees with Xiaoli's idea. A mature man should get married before starting a career.
What are the advantages of renting a house and getting married?
1, in exchange for a higher quality of life. I have to pay more than 2000 yuan in rent every month, and this is also a business of beating dogs with meat buns. It really hurts to think of it, but compared with the monthly payment of more than 5,000 yuan in big cities, you can get a better quality of life with this 2,000 yuan: couples who love to travel can go abroad once a year, and those who love photography can buy a lens a year, and friends don't have to hide behind when they pay the bill. Rent a big house if you have money, and rent a small house if you have no money. Wait until you are ready, and then buy a house calmly.
Don't do things beyond my ability rashly. In a humble abode, Guo Haiping is eager to buy a house. After experiencing too much bitterness, he finally realized: If my life is like a video tape, I must find the 22-year-old tape and play it again. At that time, I will choose to go back to my hometown with my lover and buy a small house with my children and parents. The house should be the driving force of struggle, not a pair of black hands that hold your throat and only bring fear, pain and suffocation. It is not shameful for married people to slowly realize the goal of buying a house by hard work.
3, not being a house slave means more room to display your fists and feet. The house can bind a person, and there is really no reason for the post-80 s children who are less than 30 years old to accept such bondage. The money earned can be used to support a better life, such as charging, going abroad, or starting a business. Marriage can make a person settle down and give him strength to sprint other important things in life; The house, at the current house price, just presses you on the chopping block and can't move.
Conclusion:
It is understandable to get married only when you have a house, because after all, material is the foundation of marriage. A sense of security is very important for a woman. Only when you have a house can you feel at home. It is not difficult to understand the psychology of some women who want to get married only when they have a house. It is understandable that a mother-in-law asks her son-in-law to have a house before she can get married. This is for the sake of the future happiness of young people, but we should do what we can and not ask too much, otherwise we may lose the happiness at our fingertips.