Nowadays, many people have a huge misunderstanding about bride price. It seems that the bride price is expensive, but it is not really for the woman. For example, the wedding room is for two people, and because the man pays the fee, the real estate license basically only has the man's name, and some even have the name of the man's parents. Although the woman lives in this house after marriage, the house has nothing to do with her.
Moreover, regarding the gift money, although the woman received the gift money, she also had a dowry. The value of dowry is basically the same as that of bride price money, and it will not take advantage of the man. When many people talk about gift money, they only emphasize how much the man has paid and never say how much the woman has married. Some girls' family economic situation is relatively good, and the total value of dowry is much higher than the bride price money given by the man. Girls want the bride price because of the man's attitude, and they don't say it's non-negotiable, and no one wants money on purpose. All the bride price money will be back then.
Girls need a bride price only through a bride price, which shows that this man and his family don't really want money, but need a heart. Even if the man receives the bride price money to the woman, she will return it all in the form of dowry. Girls don't want to covet money, just hope that men can show enough security to women. With this sense of security, the happiness of marriage will be sublimated.