If you don't do it for your son, then you certainly don't take care of the child very much and don't know the hard work that haunts the child. So it's easy for you to have another child.
Of course, it is also possible that you have money. If you want to have more children, it is easy to raise them. Then you can directly pay your wife to hire two nannies to wait on her. If you have children, you don't need her to bring them. I guess she will.
If you are not rich and don't take care of your children, don't go looking for trouble. You're just saying that, but your wife needs to pay a high price.
First of all, you should earn enough money to make your wife feel particularly safe, so you don't have to worry about money at all.
Second, be especially patient with your wife and children. Even if you don't have time to do housework, take time to celebrate a wedding anniversary with your wife, interact with your children and take a family trip. Can bear the responsibility of raising children.
Third, your parents should be reasonable. If you can't help, at least don't do this or that. If you can, please don't tell your daughter-in-law what to do.
If the above conditions are met, I think I can talk to my wife.
First convince yourself whether you can be a competent husband and husband. When there is no one to help take care of the third child, when the rice and oil are needed, when the wife reaches out and asks you for money, and when the wife smells like oil smoke, milk and sloppiness, can you greet her with a smile and ask her not to be upset because she asks you for money to buy diapers? Just have a third child. You are just on a whim, but your wife has to work hard all her life.
This is your love of money [I want to be quiet]
Brother, get on the bus first, then buy a ticket, cook raw rice into cooked rice, poke a hole in the raincoat and change the medicine into vitamins. Have you read less of these allusions? Do you need me to teach you? What's done is done, and then convince your wife that you are more active. It is difficult for girls to have children. Give your wife more care. Your older child is in the senior high school entrance examination, and your younger child is in the second day of junior high school, which means that your wife has a short and hard time giving birth. It is conservatively estimated that your wife got married at the age of 20, and now she is in her thirties. She belongs to an old woman. If she wants to have another child, I suggest you and your wife clarify the pros and cons in advance.
Your boss has a mid-term exam this year, which means the child is at least 15 years old. Even if your wife was born at the age of 20, she will be 35 this year. Pregnant at the age of 35, and an elderly woman at the age of 36. There are all kinds of unknown risks.
Brainwashing! What did you say?
Why are men all the same? Since the three-child policy came out, my husband has mentioned it every once in a while, and he has told me many times that he wants a second child. The old man also said that one child is lonely and two children have a companion. I said it's too expensive and tiring to raise children! They say that the rich support the rich and the poor support the poor. In the past seven or eight poor people have also come back to life. When you get old, even if you haven't saved anything, you still have children! What are you doing? Just having a baby. A lot of words are waiting for me
But having a baby really hurts your health. I am at least five years old after giving birth to a baby. Obviously, I went out for a walk and gave birth to a baby. Even the best beauty camera can't take pictures of my unmarried state.
Hit her with money, she doesn't agree that the money is not in place, and continue to fight. As long as she feels that the money is in place, it will naturally be born. No woman wants to suffer just because she speaks. Giving her money at least makes her feel that even if she gives birth to three babies, the quality of life will not decline for the rest of her life. At this time, women need a sense of security.
Personally, I will consider it when I feel that the conditions at home are good. One of my relatives, nine planets Market 145 square house, Jiashan paid the full amount, and spent more than 600,000 yuan to build a house in his hometown. We are in favor of having another one. After all, our family has strength. Besides, as a Jiangxi native, I still care about whether there are boys, which shows that there are sons with confidence. It's true. My two sons, my relatives and my brother, are now concerned about their uncle's assets [covering their faces]. No matter how much money you earn outside, you will still talk when you go back to your hometown. If there is no son to inherit, no matter how much money is owned by others. So whether you are born or not can really depend on the family's economic strength.
What people do is a will. If the wife doesn't have this desire at present, don't force her to see when she wants to have a third child. There's an old saying that you are barely happy. If you force your wife to have a third child, something bad may happen. Put yourself in others' shoes. Can you feel comfortable if your boss forces you to do something that you dislike very much? Can you accept it?