Step one, propose! If the relationship between the two sides is stable, the man should hurry to the woman's house to propose marriage.
How to propose? Please see the following raiders, haha! I can only help you here!
Step 1: "Post"
Xiaoshan people are more traditional. For the woman, her daughter's marriage is equivalent to sending her daughter to the man's house. Therefore, the man must give gifts. The amount of gift money depends on economic conditions. This gift is in Xiaoshan, and we call it "pledge".
After the woman receives the money, she will check the character of both parties and finally set the wedding date. For the "deposit" money, the woman will refund it, and if the conditions are good, it may be refunded in full. In Xiaoshan, a woman will get a generous dowry when she gets married, which depends on her family conditions. The conditions are particularly good. In addition to cash and cars, there is also a house as a dowry.
The second step: "bride price"
After the wedding date is fixed, the man will also buy gold, platinum and other jewelry for the woman, but now many young people will choose to go shopping in Hong Kong. In addition to jewelry, the man also needs to buy 60 Jin of good cotton for the woman, and the woman's parents should make quilts with at least 6 beds and 8 beds. On the eve of the wedding, the man will also give the wedding candy to the woman's home and ask her parents how much wedding candy they want.
At the same time, the woman's parents should buy a suit and a pair of leather shoes for the man to wear when they get married. If it is Chinese New Year, parents and relatives of both sides should give red envelopes to their son-in-law and daughter-in-law, and also give them when they get married (we also call it a meeting gift).
Step 3: "Wedding"
I'll talk about this briefly. Every place is different. Bian Xiao said the simplest process. On the wedding day, the man will choose a lucky time and take the wedding team to the woman's house. The wedding procession strictly follows the principle of west first, then east, and does not take the heavy road. When they come to the woman's house, they need to pass the test of bridesmaids.
After some tossing by bridesmaids, the bride was picked up, and then tea was offered to her parents-in-law, officially called "father" and "mother", and then red envelopes were given to each. After bidding farewell to the parents-in-law, the bride's brother or younger brother will take the bride to the wedding car, and the mother will put on a pair of new shoes for her daughter when she gets on the bus.
After arriving at the man's home, the couple were honored. The man's mother will send dessert to the couple, indicating that the future will be very sweet. In the afternoon, the couple and their relatives set off for the hotel to prepare for the reception.
Step 3: "Make wine"
The customs of supplying wine in cities and rural areas are different. If you are in the city, you usually get together at night, but if both parties are in the countryside, you usually get together at the woman's house first and then go to the man's house. Bian Xiao prefers to hold a wedding reception in the countryside, because the dishes cooked by the village chefs are delicious and plentiful. The dishes at a banquet are usually folded three times, so much that you can't finish them.
People who are basically exhausted after a wedding ~ ~ Pay attention, it is estimated that a wedding will cost a house. It can only be said that it is really not easy to get married in Xiaoshan. The person who can accompany you through the wedding process in Xiaoshan must be the one who really loves you. Be sure to cherish each other ~