Before choosing a wedding date, you need to know:
1, respect both parents: Old people will be very concerned about choosing a day. Be sure to respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision;
2. Don't be superstitious: Although "auspicious days on the ecliptic" is a tradition in China, we should also understand that the happiness of marriage lies in whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid or not, and it doesn't depend on a certain "auspicious day on the ecliptic", so it needs to be arranged from a scientific perspective.
3. Set the wedding date as soon as possible: In foreign countries, couples usually choose the wedding date before the wedding date 1 year, which can facilitate the arrangement of other matters in the future. Of course, you can also choose the date according to the international situation, but try to set the wedding date earlier, prepare enough time for the wedding planning, and don't act in a hurry! You can ask for the opinions of important guests before setting the wedding date, but you don't have to cater to too many people. Once you have set a wedding date, don't change it easily.
Matters needing attention in choosing wedding date
1. Try to avoid peak days during the wedding rush hour.
Due to the influence of climate and environment, there are different wedding peaks all over the country, because new people hope to hold weddings on these good days. When choosing a wedding date, first of all, you should know the wedding peak period and the peak day of the peak period in the city where you want to hold the wedding, and try to avoid these days of the peak period. In this case, it will be of great benefit to choose master of ceremonies, photography, floats, hotels, dresses, etc. And it will directly reduce your wedding budget or improve the quality of your wedding. In fact, sometimes as long as one day in advance or one day later, you can choose the most ideal hotel, book the car you have long wanted, have the best master of ceremonies to preside over your wedding, have an excellent photographer to record your life's ceremony, and even your relatives and friends don't have to worry about handling several weddings at the same time. Therefore, choose a day of the year that is important to you and memorable, but ordinary to others. Like the anniversary of your first kiss. In this way, you can not only get the best service with less money, but also walk into the wedding hall with a very leisurely mood and enjoy the wedding wishes of relatives and friends. Good day, good mood, of course, you can have your cake and eat it!
2. The weather on the wedding day
Maybe you think it would be romantic to have a wedding on a rainy day? But most couples still want sunny wedding day. Whether you like light rain or sunshine, knowing the weather on the wedding day can let you know what you want and make some emergency arrangements in advance. At present, the climate centers in some big cities can provide some special services, such as: trend forecast within 30 days; /kloc-climate forecast within 0/0 and 7 days; Climate information within 3 days, etc. , or calculate and provide annual weather forecast according to historical climate data. When choosing a wedding date, you can take this as a reference and try to avoid bad weather. In addition, you can also choose the corresponding service at the local meteorological station according to your own needs, and get the real-time weather information on the wedding day, so as to plan ahead.
3. Avoid the bride's menstrual period.
If the wedding day happens to be the bride's menstrual period, will it be a trouble? So be sure to avoid the bride's menstrual period as much as possible. There are two ways. First, if the bride's physiological cycle is regular, her menstrual period can be calculated. Second, if it is inevitable to choose the bride's physiological cycle or the physiological cycle is irregular and it is impossible to determine the menstrual period, you can consult a doctor 10 days before the wedding. If there are no contraindications, you can take medicine before the wedding under the guidance of a doctor, and generally you can postpone your menstrual period.
4. Consider the work plans of both parties.
Try to avoid affecting your work plan because of the wedding, because in those days when preparing for the wedding and holding ceremonies and wedding banquets, newcomers often can't concentrate on their work. Therefore, when setting the wedding date, you should also refer to your annual work plan. Don't choose your own peak hours or before and after a business trip, so that you can have enough holidays to spend a sweet honeymoon, and you can also avoid the situation that you can't hold the wedding as scheduled because of work emergencies or the important work plan is affected because of wedding preparations.
5. Traditional rules of "auspicious day"
China people are used to choosing an auspicious day to get married. When choosing the auspicious day of the zodiac, the old people usually think that the auspicious day of the zodiac is the best leap year (there will be a leap year every two or three years, that is, there are two "beginning of spring" and one "leap month" in that year. There is also the Mid-Autumn Festival, which is full at the beginning of the month, that is, August in the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for weddings. In addition, some places still pay attention to traditional rules. Parents' birthdays can't be the same as wedding auspicious days, which means it is not suitable to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.
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