My boyfriend Xiao Bei and I are college classmates. After graduation, he and I went back to our hometown. He was admitted to a public institution and I became a teacher.
We have a deep emotional foundation and are looking forward to everything from school uniforms to wedding dresses.
My parents like me very much. They never object as long as I like it.
After working for four years, we are going to get married.
The parents of both sides met and chatted happily, and the time for the bride price and wedding was also set.
The house price in our city is more than 5000 yuan. We all have provident fund to make up the down payment of the house, and then we can apply for provident fund loans, so it is easy to solve the house problem.
Xiaobei and I were busy looking at the house, and the prospective mother-in-law said, "If you want to buy a house and settle down, you should get a marriage certificate first."
Xiaobei also said: "It's my birthday soon, and we will get the certificate on my birthday. This is my best birthday present. "
So we got a marriage certificate.
Three months later, my mother-in-law didn't mention the bride price or help with the wedding. When I asked Xiao Bei, he was also evasive. Can't help calling my mother-in-law.
Mother-in-law's voice came from the receiver. "I have got a marriage certificate. What bride price and banquet do I need? " I was petrified in an instant. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to have such an idea.
My mother urged marriage again. In front of Xiaobei, I told my mother that there was no need to prepare, and I wanted to divorce Xiaobei. I said angrily, "I can still afford a divorce certificate."
Xiaobei was scared when she heard my words. Let me give him some time. He went home and told his mother.
But her mother-in-law made up her mind and refused to contribute.
I discussed with Xiaobei not to buy a house yet. He used his savings as a bride price and tried his best to arrange the banquet. We should get married at the appointed time first and then try to arrange the house later. But my mother-in-law refused to attend the wedding.
I am on the horns of a dilemma. My mother-in-law has long planned to do such a thing. If I just submit to humiliation, I feel very uncomfortable, but I divorced Xiaobei like this, and I won't give up.
My mother said, "The bride price is a reflection of the husband's family's attention to his daughter-in-law, and it is also intended for you two. Not if you don't. "
"Your father and I will help prepare for the wedding. After all, every girl wants to wear a beautiful wedding dress. Mom doesn't want you to regret it. The wedding will be held in our house first, and it doesn't matter whether the husband's family does it or not. "
My father said, "The house is yours. Your mother and I still have some savings, so I'll lend it to you."
In this way, with the support of our parents, we had a wedding and bought a house.
During the Spring Festival, Xiaobei and I went back to our parents' home directly.
The mother-in-law called "Xiaobei, why didn't you go home in the first year of marriage? Bring your daughter-in-law back. How can I spend the New Year at my mother-in-law's house? It's not adopted by your son-in-law. "
Xiaobei replied, "I have no daughter-in-law. The wedding hasn't been held yet. It is normal to go to my girlfriend's house for the New Year. " Then I hung up.
My mother-in-law never gave up and called me "Xiaoxiao, you and Xiaobei go home for the New Year."
"Aunt, Xiaobei and I are at home!" I said it out loud on purpose
"You child, you are married to Xiaobei, how can you call your aunt?"
"Ah, are we married? You are kidding! Your relatives can't witness it, and there is no change fee. How can you just shout? I don't want to be a cheap mother. Xiaobei called my parents. After all, he is kowtowing at my house. " I talked and laughed.
My mother-in-law has no voice, and I am unambiguous. "Aunt, Happy New Year. We are busy preparing the reunion dinner at night, so we won't delay time." Then I hung up.
Two days later, my mother-in-law called her husband again. "XiaoBei, you'd better go home. Family reunion is not appropriate. "
I don't want to go back with him My mother said I can't be willful, and things have to be solved.
Xiao Bei took my hand. "Daughter-in-law, let's go home and act. Don't waste so many viewers. "
Xiao Bei and I went back to my husband's house.
My husband's family has the habit of getting together with relatives during the Spring Festival. It's the husband's turn today.
When I got home, my husband and I were about to start having lunch. My mother-in-law was still very happy to see me and asked me to sit next to her for dinner.
You're welcome. I sat next to my mother-in-law, and after I sat down, I said "Thank you, Aunt".
Relatives around whispered, "Didn't you say Xiaobei got married? Why are you still called aunt? "
"Did you hear wrong?"
"It's possible that it wasn't aunt who just shouted."
"Mm-hmm, it's possible."
I am funny in my heart. It seems that I have to speak loudly. Someone didn't hear you!
My mother-in-law was embarrassed and called her relatives to move chopsticks to cover up her embarrassment.
I also pretended that nothing had happened and picked up a bowl to eat.
My mother-in-law helps me get food. "Xiaoxiao, this dish is delicious. I remember you used to like it best. "
"Thank you, aunt. Aunt's craft is the best. It's rare for my aunt to be so considerate. I still remember it now. " I said three aunts in a row, and they all shouted.
Sister impatient first "small north, not married? Why does your daughter-in-law still call your mother aunt? It's rude. "
Xiao Bei looked at me silently and blinked at me. I got it.
Stand up and say directly to your sister: "Sister, you have gone too far. It's nothing to call your sister. You can also call me uncle and aunt. This parent can't yell. How can you say we are married? Did you eat the wedding candy or drink the wedding banquet? "
My sister looked a little ugly and sat down angrily.
I end the tea in the past "elder sister, I drink tea instead of wine, recognize you as relatives. But don't forget to give a red envelope, sister. This gift is indispensable. As for my future mother-in-law, I don't know why, but I haven't held a wedding for Xiaobei and me. I want to call my mother and I don't know when I can call her. "
My sister had a bad attack, took a sip of water and sat down.
The little uncle couldn't sit still and challenged me, "Aren't you married with Xiaobei? Isn't this wedding held in your home? "
I smile "little uncle, it's rare that you have been so concerned about me and XiaoBei. Xiaobei and I did have a wedding at my home, mainly because my parents thought Xiaobei was particularly good and recognized this son! "
I exclaimed, "Ah, uncle, I really didn't expect you not to tell me. I know why I didn't have a wedding with Xiaobei. Maybe I'm not good enough. My future mother-in-law doesn't like it and has been dragging it. "
Xiaobei's father asked his brother-in-law to sit down. How could I give up and walk to Xiaobei's father with tea? "Uncle, I respect you. Happy New Year. "
Without waiting for his response, I took a sip of water and went back.
Aunt can't see the past "small north, you call raining parents also called uncle aunt? This is too rude. "
Before I could speak, Xiaobei Station got up and said, "Elder sister-in-law, I am puzzled. You said Xiaoxiao can call my mom aunt now. What should we call my mother if we have children in the future? "
The grandson of the elder sister-in-law learned from Tik Tok in the car and said, "Dad's father is called Grandpa, and Dad's mother is called Grandma."
I smiled and asked him, "What's mom's aunt's name?"
The little guy hung his head. "It's too difficult, I don't know."
Xiaobei took the opportunity to say, "My future child is miserable, and it will be embarrassing if it is not born yet."
Grandma Xiaobei stood up and spoke. "What's wrong with seeking legally married? Your parents are such failures. Do you still have to force girls to come? It's a pity. "
The mother-in-law stood up. "Mom, it's not that I haven't seen a good day. It is our fault to do it after the New Year. "
"The founding (father-in-law), you are a father, you should also worry about it. You have to have a wedding for your child, and there must be no less gifts and letters. " Grandma was so angry that everyone dared not make any noise.
Grandfather nodded in agreement.
I quickly took out the prepared red envelope and handed it to grandma "Happy New Year, grandma!" " "
The old lady smiled and took the red envelope, turned around and gave me a bigger one, saying that today's family dinner was an engagement party. Xiaobei's parents were busy giving me big red envelopes, and relatives gave me red envelopes, saying that they would wait for our wedding reception when they left.
@ Xiao Xie talks about emotions
You have a reasonable and good parent who gives you great support. You also have a good husband who knows how to respect and protect you. You are smart and thoughtful yourself, which earned you respect in your husband's family.
What happened to you, if it were someone else, might end in divorce. Even if you don't divorce, it will lead to conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and they will hate each other for life.
It takes luck to meet a good mother-in-law, and it may be something we can work hard to make a less qualified mother-in-law become a good mother-in-law.
You have such IQ and EQ, and I believe that you will have a harmonious husband and wife and a happy family in the future. I will be a good wife, daughter-in-law and mother.
I am @ Xiao Xie. I look forward to meeting you in the world of words.