Pick-up process on wedding day
1, get up early and get ready. The wedding day is very busy, so the bride and groom have to get up early to prepare for the next day.
2, send a red envelope. Don't forget to give red envelopes to relatives and friends who come to the groom's house in the morning, and give red envelopes, candy and cigarettes to drivers and photographers of the motorcade.
3. The groom should contact the motorcade and relevant personnel to be present. In the morning, the groom took a bunch of flowers and set off with his best man, friends and the camera crew of the wedding company. When the motorcade arrived, he got on the bus and set off firecrackers within the specified time.
4. Arrive at the bride's house. The groom knocked at the door with the best man, relatives and friends. Generally, the groom will knock on two doors. At the first door, relatives and friends of the bride's family will try their best to stop him. Of course, the groom can't be stingy with his red envelopes, candy and cigarettes. Say more nice things and give more red envelopes. I believe it will be faster to get close to the first door. The second door is more difficult, but by the same token, don't be stingy with your red envelope.
5. After entering the bride's room, present a bunch of flowers. The groom presented a bouquet of flowers to the bride, and the photographer and cameraman began their busy work.
6. find shoes. After entering the bride's room, you can't leave immediately. You need to find the bride's wedding shoes. Generally, wedding shoes 2 will only be hidden in an inconspicuous place in the room by relatives and friends. The groom wants to find it quickly, but don't be stingy with the red envelope.
7. After finding the shoes, the bride's relatives carried the bride downstairs, and the bride and groom got on the wedding car and went to the wedding room. At the same time, the groom should inform his parents in advance to wait in the new house.
8. The groom offers tea to the bride's parents. The bride's parents give the groom red envelopes.
9. The motorcade arrived at the new house and set off firecrackers. When the groom carries the bride upstairs, he may encounter various obstacles or give red envelopes on the way. Drinking sweet soup means having children early. The bride makes tea for the groom's parents, and the groom's parents give the bride red envelopes.
10, everyone goes to the restaurant for lunch. After everyone has finished eating, the newlyweds go to the hotel, the bride goes to the dressing room to make up, and relatives and friends can freely move or help in the hotel to prepare for the wedding in the evening.
What's the point of meeting relatives?
1, premarital contact between both parties
This "contact" does not refer to physical or mental contact, but to let two people "contact" on the horoscope to see if there is anything inappropriate between them and to figure out what they will lack after they get together. If you are short of gold in your life, you can choose to wear bracelets and other accessories made of white crystal to make appropriate supplements. If there is no other solution, you can follow the corresponding solution, which can avoid unnecessary trouble.
2. Feng Shui when the bride goes out and enters the door
Avoid pockets on the bride's clothes, so as not to take away her family's wealth. Besides, the bride should not wear old shoes on the wedding day, and all shoes should be new. In addition, the bride can walk, because the wedding dress is too long, it is inevitable to step on the groom, but stepping on the groom will make her husband feel ashamed. Therefore, the bride must be careful when walking. When the bride enters the groom's house, avoid stepping on the threshold and crossing the threshold. On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, the sister-in-law needs to avoid it, because it is unlucky to be an aunt, lonely, sister-in-law and sweeping the floor.
3. Choice of wedding car
The choice of wedding car can not be ignored. It is not that the more expensive the car, the better. The best choice is a car that is beneficial to the life of the bride and groom. Because the color of the wedding car can also represent the distinction between the five elements: white and ivory cars are gold, black and blue cars are water, purple cars are fire, khaki cars are earth, and green, blue and green cars are wood. People with different numerology and five elements should choose a wedding car that suits their five elements.
4. The driving route of the wedding car
On the way to the wedding, if your wedding car meets someone else's wedding car, it is unlucky to call it "Xi Chong Xi". But the flowers prepared by the matchmakers of both sides can be exchanged, which is called flower exchange to avoid ambiguity. In addition, the route of the wedding car should avoid hospitals, courts, temples, funeral homes, iron towers and other unlucky places. The cameraman in charge of recording the wedding car should also remember not to bring ominous or unlucky things into the camera, so as not to adversely affect the marriage life of the couple.
5. Newcomers should also pay attention to getting on and off.
Judging from the geomantic omen, the order of getting off the first car at the wedding banquet is also particular. The bride and groom sit in the back seat of the first car of the wedding banquet, and the best man usually sits in the co-pilot position. When the first car arrives at the wedding banquet hotel, the best man gets off first, goes around to the rear of the car and opens the door for the groom. Then the groom goes around the front door to the right back door, opens the door for the bride and helps her get off. This order is based on the geomantic considerations of "left green dragon, right white tiger" and cannot be reversed.
Preparations before the wedding
1. The wedding limousine can be rented from limousine company or booked together with the photo studio. The limousines of relatives and friends can be used for personal use or car rental. Generally speaking, the rental prices of luxury cars vary greatly, so it is necessary to compare them before renting. Most of the colors are black, dark blue and Bordeaux, and there are luxury cars with ordinary car colors, but the cost should be increased as appropriate.
Most of the wedding staff are close friends of the bride and groom. In addition to the bridesmaids and groomsmen mentioned above, a general manager should be set up to be responsible for the affairs of the wedding day, such as when to open the banquet, distribute soda, wine, candy and melon seeds, and arrange the salute time. In this case, all the staff should be formally invited one month in advance to get together and explain, so as to get ready.
In the wedding season, because there are many brides who do hair, you might as well get a manicure and shampoo in advance. When you go to the beauty salon the next day, you just need to apply nail polish and wet your hair. It's convenient, relaxing and time-saving.
It's best to spray some water on the wrinkled part of clothes, and it will be smooth when it is dry.
5, put some cosmetics needed for makeup, such as lipstick, eyebrow pencil, blush, oil-absorbing paper, etc. In case of emergency.
6. Don't drink too much water before going to bed the day before marriage, so as to avoid eye edema the next day.
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Wedding process
1, the wedding begins:
Good evening, ladies and gentlemen! (happy)
Welcome to this happy banquet today. Please allow me to express my warm welcome and heartfelt thanks to all of you on behalf of the bride and groom and their parents!
In the beautiful spring of 20xx, we seem to see a hundred flowers blooming, that is, the happy love of the bride and groom, Miss xxx.
2. Newcomers debut:
Friends, let's turn all our expectations and blessings into warm applause! Please welcome the bride and groom to come out happily. (Music Wedding March)
Look, there are some new people dancing. This is their first appearance. The groom's name is xxx and he was born in February. 1977. 1999 graduated from the English Department of the School of Foreign Languages, Wuhan University, and continued his postgraduate studies. After graduation, he became the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, during which he worked in the Embassy in Singapore for five years. The bride's name is xxx. She was born in Wuhan on April 1982. She graduated from the Conservatory of Music of China Normal University in July, xx, and continued her graduate studies. Now he is a doctoral student in the College of Literature of Wuhan University. They met in Wu Da in xx, and they have been in love for a long time since then. For eight years, although they are separated from each other, they have never changed their original intention and are determined to stay together and grow old together. Today, they finally held a grand wedding here! Ladies and gentlemen, let's extend our warm hands and extend our best wishes to this happy couple, wishing them a happy marriage and a successful career!
3, the witness:
All the guests present today brought endless greetings and best wishes to a couple. Now, please welcome the marriage witness, Comrade Li Shiying, the headmaster of Dongmafang Junior High School, to give a wedding message.
Thank you very much for President Li's warm wedding congratulations. I want to take President Li's wedding wishes and everyone's best wishes, and the future life of the bride and groom will be full of lofty aspirations, step by step promotion, happiness and full moon.
4. To the guests:
Thank you for coming to congratulate us. I hope we can have a good time together. Please ask the bride and groom to bow to the parents of the guests three times. Bow three times to friends and relatives again, thank you for your care and help over the years, and thank the leading friends for coming to congratulate you and substitute wine for love; Bow three times to all the staff: I wish you good health and all the best.
5. Newcomers exchange rings and light candles:
Heart-to-heart communication, love and affection merge into such a beautiful oath today. In order to remember this day and this moment forever, two couples will exchange wedding rings to show their loyalty to love. Please witness this happy moment for the bride and groom and wish them happiness forever. Next, please light candles for the couple: candlelight is a symbol of luck and joy. Now the little angel is sending them the flame of love. Today is the beginning of your new life. Please light the flame of love and the candlestick of love. From now on, you will no longer be attacked by strong winds, because you are a harbor to shelter from each other; From today on, you won't get wet by the rain, because you are an umbrella that covers each other; From today on, you will no longer feel cold, because you warm each other's hearts; From today on, you will no longer feel lonely, because you are integrated into each other's lives, and God has given you dependence and companionship. I sincerely wish you happiness and peace!
6. New speech:
I think at this warm moment, the couple must want to say something to everyone, especially to your parents. Ok, please welcome the bride xxx as the representative. (Applause)
7. Thank you:
Next, please welcome the bride's father, Mr. Cheng Youbao, to give a thank-you speech to all the guests and friends.
Thank you, not much to say, but really, let's wish their big family harmony, beauty and happiness forever.
8. Best wishes to the bride and groom again:
Ladies and gentlemen, spring is really here. On this warm and happy day, a couple sweetly joined hands to form a new family. Today, they came together and walked into the wedding hall. This is a happy day, and it is a day for all of us to celebrate. At the same time, I also take this opportunity to put forward some hopes to the two newcomers:
First, after you get married, I hope you will honor your parents and repay their parenting.
Second, I hope that you will respect each other, love each other, understand each other, pay each other and create your happy life together.
Thirdly, I hope that you will take the wedding as an opportunity in your future work, work hard in your respective posts, support each other and make greater contributions to your respective careers with excellent results. Friends, let's wish the bride and groom again: raise the sails of life, paddle the oars of love and sail for a happy tomorrow.
9, the wedding banquet began, firing:
Finally, I will send you a pair of couplets. The first part is: eat all the delicious food on the table and don't waste it; The bottom line is: drink a glass of happy wine and don't get drunk. Horizontal criticism means: (everyone knows) eat and drink well.