I think the most important thing in tutoring children is to pay attention to methods. Counseling methods are very important. It is necessary to learn scientific counseling, so as to get twice the result with half the effort and children can really learn well. Therefore, parents must not blindly go to psychological counseling. They can study online in advance, or ask teachers for counseling methods. Only by improving themselves can parents really teach their children well. As for the couple in Wuxi, the fact that their children can be tutored in the hospital only shows that they are not competent enough to tutor their children correctly.
I think parents should learn self-regulation and control when teaching their children. No matter your tone or action, there should be no big ups and downs. Before tutoring, tell yourself to relax and not get angry. You can even post a note to remind yourself, so as not to forget it when you are tutoring. As long as you are calm enough, you won't go to the hospital for consultation.
I think parents should also plan their own learning progress and goals before tutoring, and don't have the idea of eating fat people. As long as you set a smaller learning goal for your child and don't put so much pressure on yourself and your family, you won't be in a hurry to get angry. There will be no impetuous phenomenon. Counseling, to put it bluntly, is assistance, and the key is how children learn.