There's a problem between you. The crux of the matter is that you stayed in Shandong, but he didn't really accept and understand the reason why you stayed in Shandong. So the troubles and quarrels in the later period are all caused by his inner insecurity. He thinks you didn't go to Sichuan, which is understandable. But be sure to clarify the problem. Regardless of the points, two people communicate well, after all, there is such a deep emotional foundation.