In my hometown, there is a custom that any family has something to be happy about (for example, getting a wife, building a house ...) and should hold a party. Generally, banquets will be held after busy farming, because people will not be too busy at that time, and all the people who work in the distance have already returned. Before the banquet, neighbors will help, build stoves, move things and so on.

It will be very lively on the day of the banquet! Set off firecrackers, play suona, knock gongs and drums and set up tents. Several children were sent to meet the guests before they arrived. Only at the door, some people bring cigarettes to the guests with tea trays. The number of cigarettes is usually two, because people want yes-men. When they went in, they saw tables everywhere and many guests. At this time, it will be the kitchen.

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Some tables are full of children, while others are full of adults. Before the opening ceremony, there will be a bag of "tea food" (including melon seeds, peanuts, sweets and fruits) on each table. At this time, children will stuff it into their pockets, and adults will eat it politely. Then serve, and finally serve. Sometimes there are many guests, and the guests clear the table after eating.

After eating, there is another thing, that is, hanging gifts (that is, one person specially records the gifts or gifts sent by the guests there), which should be expressed as congratulations to the host.