First, I have a certain understanding of both sides.

One of the important prerequisites of marriage is that both parties should understand each other. It is impossible to fully understand each other, but at least 80% or 90% understanding is needed.

In addition to the basic conditions, there are personality, principles of dealing with people, future plans, family situation, circle of friends, hobbies. The purpose of understanding is simple, that is, to judge whether two people get along and whether you can accept each other's shortcomings.

Second, it can keep a certain freshness.

I have heard many true stories that they ended up breaking up after 78 years of love, but in fact, the reason why they broke up may be that they spent too long together and were bored, just like drinking plain water.

It is true that love needs freshness. It is said that the love period is three months, and it is easier to keep fresh within two years. Therefore, when both sides are still fresh, it should still play a more positive role to sublimate each other's feelings through marriage.