From June 5438 to February 30, 2003, Anita Mui, known as the "daughter of Hong Kong", died of cancer at the peak of her career at the age of 40.
Anita Mui's life is only 40 years, but her position in music and film is unparalleled. She is the owner of Aaron Kwok, Chrysopa and Ekin Cheng. She quit the music scene on 1992 because she had no rival in Hong Kong, which led to the appearance of Faye Wong and Sammi Cheng.
Today, Anita Mui's achievements are still hard to surpass, not only in his career, but also in his life, and Anita Mui is successful.
In Hong Kong entertainment circle, probably no one is more popular than Anita Mui, because she is a brave person, who respects her predecessors very much and works hard to support her younger generation. If her friend is in trouble, she won't stand by.
In terms of career and life, Anita Mui has no regrets, but life is not complete. On the stage, the indifferent and quiet Mei Gu also has an unfinished wish, that is, to put on a wedding dress, get married and have children.
For this purpose, after learning that he was ill, Anita Mui insisted on refusing the operation. Anita Mui once said to his best friend before his death, "I want to be loved, get married and have children most in my life. Being a mother is the happiest thing in the world. "
But in the end, with these regrets, she spent these 40 years in Hong Kong Yanghe Hospital.
Anita Mui's emotional experience in his life is extremely rich. I've been in love seven times, but none of them lasted long. In love, she kept singing, but in the end she was alone.
Anita Mui's background is not good. When her father died young, her mother regarded her and her sister as money-making machines early. She started acting at the age of four.
Fate finally treated her well. After she entered the Hong Kong music scene, after several years of hard work, she finally became a figure who can hold up half the sky.
I thought that after I succeeded in my career, I could feel the warmth brought by my family by bringing ample food and clothing to my family, but she was wrong after all.
After Anita Mui's career was in full swing, her mother slaughtered her more and more. Mother is addicted to gambling and often loses money. She directly regards Anita Mui as a cash cow.
Although Anita Mui is a star, she didn't earn much when she first became famous, but her mother ignored her and always tried her best to ask Anita Mui for money.
What makes people even more angry is that Anita Mui's mother not only asked for money by herself, but also helped her son cheat Anita Mui together, up to several million at most.
Anita Mui would never have thought that her mother is the closest person in the world, but she is cold-blooded, so she is particularly eager to have a small family of her own and someone who can bring her warmth.
Anita Mui's strong desire for marriage stems from her poor family to some extent, because she has never been cared for and cared for by her relatives since she was a child, so she longs for someone to make up for the harm brought to her by her family background.
But sometimes life is so embarrassing. The more you yearn for, the harder it is to get. Anita Mui's desire for affection far exceeds that of others, but she has always loved it deeply.
On June 5438+065438+1October 15, 2003, Anita Mui took the stage of the Red Pavilion for the last time. On that day, she wore a white wedding dress. Before she started singing, she slowly said to her fans:
"I've been an actor and singer all my life, and I've worn wedding dresses many times, but they don't belong to me every time. I thought I would get married before I was 28 or 30, and I hope to have my own family and children when I am 32. But I have nothing, and finally I am in my 40 s. All I have is nothing but you. "
Anita Mui, who lost her father in childhood and her mother treated her badly, spent her whole life looking for someone to join hands with at dusk. However, in the vast sea of people, those who entered her life only stayed for a short time and finally turned away. She went through seven relationships in her life and ended up breaking up.
Anita Mui is excellent, and no man who has had an affair with her is an idle person. Before Andy Lau, after Leslie Cheung. They all had an unfinished relationship with Anita Mui, and Andy Lau was the most ambiguous.
In 199 1 program "Happy Tonight's Andy Lau Chooses the Dream Lover", Anita Mui gave him 100, and she said, "Marry Andy Lau".
For some time, the gossip about them has also been circulated in heated debates, but the parties have never admitted it, or perhaps their relationship is "love is not full, friendship is above."
Both Anita Mui and Andy Lau are sober enough to know that people who love each other may not last long, but their friendship is more practical, so this seemingly well-matched pair of men and women did not bear fruit in the end.
Anita Mui and Leslie Cheung seem very similar. Both of them are sentient beings and have been hurt to varying degrees. Leslie Cheung once said, "If you are not married at the age of 40, then I will marry you."
Unfortunately, when she was 40, he left before her. At Leslie Cheung's funeral, Anita Mui, with terminal cancer, cried, and no one could understand that feeling.
Now, they have all left this world. If there is heaven, maybe they will meet and continue their love in this life.
Anita Mui's most sensational relationship is with Japanese singer Masahiko Kondo.
Anita Mui at that time was really touching. He flies to Japan seven or eight times a year to be with his boyfriend. At that time, she was really eager to have a good result with each other.
Anita Mui's feelings are very strong. She made no secret of her love for Masahiko Kondo. It's a pity that men are not so dead set on Anita Mui. When dating Anita Mui, he still kept an affair with his ex-girlfriend.
In the world of love, it is impossible to accommodate three people. In the end, Anita Mui lost confidence in this relationship and reluctantly broke up.
Although this relationship was really disappointing, Anita Mui didn't stop pursuing love, and soon she met another boyfriend, Lin Guobin.
Then, because the fame gap was too big, after the two fell in love, the entire Hong Kong entertainment circle was rumored that "Anita Mui kept Lin Guobin."
Despite the great pressure of public opinion, they still chose to face it together. Those years with Lin Guobin were also the time when Anita Mui was in trouble, but Lin Guobin never left her.
Anita Mui said that in those days, she was like a little girl, enjoying the feeling of being spoiled. Every time she quarreled, Lin Guobin surrendered first.
It's a pity that such a sweet relationship still can't escape the ending of breaking up. It is said that Lin Guobin wants to get married, but Anita Mui thinks it will be a critical period of career development and doesn't want to get married.
In desperation, the two broke up amicably, which was the closest Anita Mui got to getting married, but she missed it.
Before Anita Mui died, Lin Guobin hurried to see her for the last time. I wonder if Anita Mui would regret it then. If he had agreed to get married, his life ending might have been rewritten.
But life is so cruel that it takes a lifetime to reverse it.
Anita Mui finally admitted his love affair with Chiu Man-Cheuk's brother and sister.
At that time, one was a Hong Kong superstar and the other was an unknown newcomer. Such a combination does not conform to the concept of mutual suitability at all.
From the day they were together, the media attacks never stopped, such as "eat soft rice, have ulterior motives" and so on. Suddenly, these nasty words hit Chiu Man-Cheuk on the head.
At first, they walked firmly together regardless of the outside gossip, because they clearly knew that they loved each other deeply, and Anita Mui once admitted: "Chiu Man-Cheuk is the man she wants to marry."
But no matter how deep the feelings are, sometimes they can't stand the denial and slander of the outside world. Finally, they broke up because of an unexplained misunderstanding, but no one knows what the misunderstanding is, and it must have broken each other's hearts.
After the breakup, Anita Mui once said in an interview: "If time could go back, she would definitely explain the misunderstanding that led to their breakup and save their feelings. If she had done that, she would be Mrs. Zhao in a wedding dress now.
Chiu Man-Cheuk kept silent about the reason why they broke up. When Anita Mui died, he sent an elegy of "Love of my life, Go all the way".
Now Chiu Man-Cheuk has his own family, but every time he mentions Anita Mui, his brow looks lonely. Perhaps it is a love affair that he will never forget, but he can only remember her in his heart.
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Anita Mui's life is like gorgeous fireworks. Although it is beautiful, it is too short.
She was born in poverty, and with that indomitable spirit, she became a superstar in Hong Kong and even Asia, but no matter how high her achievements were, she didn't take away her deep loneliness.
Fame, flowers and applause never left her life, but when no one was around in the middle of the night, she kept the big empty house, and her heart was bitter. She has a mother and a brother, but what they gave her was not affection and relationship, but painful memories.
She has been looking for love all her life and is eager to put on a wedding dress for a man. He may not be rich or a superstar. It is enough to love her, but she has never waited for that person in her life.
In her life, in addition to her open boyfriend, she also has an gossip boyfriend. There were seven people around, but no one accompanied her to the end. She is lonelier than fireworks.
In the end, the girl left this world alone with regret and pain, leaving the world with endless thoughts and memories.
In this life, if you are lucky enough to meet someone who is willing to join hands with each other, you must cherish it, because sometimes, in a blink of an eye, it is a lifetime.