You mean engaged? Nayong people ask betrothal to burn incense, and there are many things to prepare. The most important thing is money, followed by things to buy, such as wax paper candles, clothes, cannons and so on. And then ask people and matchmakers from 12 or 18 to send these things to the woman's home, and of course, prepare a lot of red envelopes, which is quite troublesome. Specifically, you can ask your future parents-in-law to do everything according to their requirements.