If there is an opportunity, everyone will look at you with new eyes, so don't feel ugly. To be a man, you must first have confidence. Only when you are confident will that woman change for you. If you can't speak, talk less, try to control your mouth and don't think. Before you look for a job, implicitly tell the girl that you like her, let her wait for you, then find a stable job and start to change yourself. . You can contact that woman occasionally during work, not too many times. Too many women get bored. . Oil; Fuel filling; Make greater efforts