The man should prepare five children's clothes "socks, underwear and coats" for the woman. When a girl becomes a monk, her feet should not touch the ground, otherwise she will take away her family wealth. When the man comes to your house, he should set off firecrackers, and the woman must get to the man's house before sunset, otherwise his mother-in-law will be blind and cry in the sedan chair. The more she cried, the deeper the relationship between mother and daughter on the wedding day. There are red envelopes in it, and the woman's family needs to add money. Fortunately, the money in this bag is called "children's money" When the man goes to the woman's house, the woman's house should prepare sugar tea and eight kinds of cakes for the man's family to eat. When the bride gets on the bus, the two brothers or younger brothers who are equal to the bride should walk slowly in front of each other. The slower the better, and now it has to be sent to men's and women's homes.

The bride seems to have put a mirror on her chest. I don't know what this means. I have to prepare a live carp. The bride gets up the next morning and will eat with the groom. That's all I know.

If you want to know more, you can ask older people again.

2. How much is the wedding bride price in Shouxian County?

Anhui Shouxian bride price 1, the gift money is generally 5000 yuan for the woman! Red envelopes don't need to be given to the woman's relatives! 2. Bridal gifts generally pay attention to the double weight of chicken, fish, cake and sugar. The giver is covered with red cloth, lined with mascots such as cypress, red dates, longan and peanuts, and affixed with the bright red word "hi".

After being hired, the man will also give his wife a "holiday gift" every year during the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival. This custom is still popular in rural areas.

3, Sanjin married to buy! It can also be decided according to the situation! 4. Ask the media to propose marriage. Commonly known as "there is no cloud in the sky, no rain in the ground, no marriage on the ground", the most exquisite "parents' life, matchmaker's words." "

* * * After the founding of the People's Republic of China, there is still the custom of matchmaking, but marriage autonomy and free love dominate; After the 1980s, there were marriage agencies in towns, newspapers and magazines, and online advertisements for marriage advertisements. Astrology.

That is to say, the date and time of birth of both men and women should be set to heavenly stems and earthly branches * * * as the horoscope, and the fortune teller will calculate whether there is a phenomenon of "Zodiac Chongke". There are "anti-marriage songs" circulating in Yuexi and other places: "White horses are not afraid of Taurus, once sheep and mice meet, snakes see tigers like knives, golden roosters see dogs cry, monkeys and pigs circle in different circles, and dragons and rabbits never end." * * * After the founding of the People's Republic of China, most people didn't believe this.

Blind date has projects such as meeting people and family members. , divided into men and women, women and men, they check and communicate to enhance understanding.

Exceed Geng. Also known as biography, biography, determination, etc. , that is, exchange wedding Geng posts.

The names of the posts are red and green notes, mandarin duck letters, commitment letters, small books and so on. They are all wedding invitations with names, birthdays and parents' names. The man wrote the word "Gongqiu" in the post, and the woman replied the word "Jingyun".

This custom has gone out of fashion since the founding of People's Republic of China (PRC). Under the dowry.

Also known as bride price and engagement, that is, the man gives the bride price to the woman. According to the family situation, gifts are rich and thin. Generally speaking, it is important to have an even number of chicken, fish, cakes and sugar. The giver is covered with red cloth, lined with mascots such as cypress, red dates, longan and peanuts, and affixed with the bright red word "hi".

After being hired, the man will also give his wife a "holiday gift" every year during the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival. This custom is still popular in rural areas.

However, due to different regions, the life and death of giving a bride price to a chicken are different. In April 2002, a couple of young people in jieshou city got married. The groom's family sent two wedding cars to pick up the bride. There is a live chicken hanging on the gift box carried with the car. The bride burst into tears when she heard the news. According to the woman's wedding custom, it is a local funeral custom to send cooked chicken on the wedding day.

The bride and groom are more than a hundred miles apart, but the marriage customs are quite different. When they get married, the bride returns to her family after going to church. The groom angrily sued the city court and was granted a divorce.

It serves to show that marriage customs are no small matter. Choose a wedding date.

Also known as newspapers, lucky books, too big books, etc. Appoint the wedding date in advance, and ask the fortune teller to choose an auspicious day and write it on red paper. The man will prepare gifts and let the matchmaker accompany him to the woman's house.

Farewell ceremony. In the old custom, the man prepared gifts and sent them to the woman's house one day (or two days) before the wedding to pay homage to his ancestors.

As the saying goes, "the upper class marries rich women, the average person marries rich women, and the lower class marries rich women."

General dowry includes clothes, boxes, jars, gold and silver ornaments, etc. And farmland, houses, mountains, cattle and sheep and other gifts. Nowadays, household appliances, houses and other items have been given away.

A sad marriage. On the wedding day, please ask a woman who has a "longevity" to "open her face" for her daughter, that is, to dress up the bride with white hair removal.

Before getting on the sedan chair, relatives, friends, wives and good sisters from the same village all came to marry the bride in tears, calling her "crying more and more". Weddings and sex.

When you get married, you must decorate your new house, decorate it with lanterns and decorations, light red candles in the hall, put wedding couplets on the concierge, and pay attention to making the bed and sewing the quilt. Most of the brides are sedan chairs, and the ones who get married are unicycles, donkeys and carriages. After the 1980s, tractors, trucks and buses were used in rural areas, and cars were used in cities and towns to celebrate the wedding.

Scholars in Tongcheng pay attention to putting couplets on the sedan chair door and singing. The man makes the first couplet and the woman makes the second couplet, carrying boys and girls to marry the bride, which is called "warm sedan chair". When the bride gets off the sedan chair, the man spreads the floor with two cloth bags and moves them in turn, so that the bride can step on the cloth bags, which is called "bag passing". Bridesmaids and others are singing loudly: "Pass it on from generation to generation, beaming;" Pass on the second generation, full of children and grandchildren; Pass on three generations, rich and glorious; Four generations, four generations under one roof; After five generations, five children must take the exam ... "And so on, for good luck.

Visit the bride and enter the bridal chamber. Some traditional sacrificial ceremonies are held in nave at home, while others are held in ancestral halls of clans. Generally speaking, it is a worship of heaven and earth, two worship of ancestors, three worship of in-laws, and finally the couple worship each other

From the sedan chair to the wedding, the bride covered her face with a red silk veil. After entering the bridal chamber, the groom lifted the veil with a balance beam and the best man sang a jingle as a blessing. For example, "When the scales are provoked, the in-laws are happy" and "When the hijab is picked at the edge of the bed, you will be a champion all your life".

Then all relatives and friends engaged in the activity of "building a new house", claiming that "the new house has no size for three days", and they took a couple to play if there were any problems. In the middle of the night, the guests left, and the groom went to the kitchen to bring the dishes and drinks together and called "cheers". Food includes red dates, longan, lotus seeds and eggs, which means good luck.

Several young people also took a dress stolen by the couple after they fell asleep as evidence and asked the host family for "happy fruit" to eat the next day. This is called "stealing a new house". Three dynasties and honeymoon.

On the second or third day of the wedding, the groom leads the bride to visit her parents-in-law and her family before the wedding, that is, the custom described by "The red candle stopped at the bridal chamber last night, and I will visit my aunt before the wedding". The Tang poem "Bride" is also called: "On the third day, cook instead of me and wash your hands to make bride soup.

I decided that not my mother-in-law, but my husband's sister should have the taste of Fiat. Today's rural areas inherit the "cooking" project, which only requires the bride to symbolically add firewood to light a fire.

Huimen in the Three Dynasties was called "provincial relatives" in ancient times, also known as "provincial relatives". Generally, I only go back to my mother's house for dinner, because the custom is "no room for one month after marriage", which is called honeymoon.

At the full moon, I will officially go back to my parents' home or relatives' home for a walk and stay. After 1980s, urban youth began to travel for honeymoon, also known as "travel marriage". They chose scenic spots and traveled during their wedding holidays.

Generally speaking, it is 10000 to 30000. Beijing is here. The lowest and most basic thing in Qingdao is 3 1800.00, that is, three companies will send it together! Guangdong .. Some women don't want too much gift money. I remember a relative gave it to Fuzhou in 3999. It used to be 33 thousand, but now it is 53 thousand

But the most important thing is that the man should buy a house for the woman. Now there are 30,000-50,000 in Tianjin, and 70,000-80,000 with more money and less money. After all, they married their daughters, not sold them.

The marriage of Shouxian people shocked the whole country. Are Shouxian people rich?

First of all, as a Shouxian person, I have a strong dislike for the marriage and love customs in my hometown! Let me introduce how people in Shouxian usually get married from love! I'm not sure about the city, so let's start from the countryside! Step one: meet.

Every time I go home for the New Year, it is a good time for blind date. Everyone has worked hard in the field for a year, and after returning home for a few days, someone must introduce you.

Because most of us abide by the imperial edict left by our parents: "Never fall in love when working outside, and marry a local." It is also this that makes the value of girls in Shouxian skyrocket.

Say meet first! The man, led by the matchmaker, went to see the woman. The meeting place is probably in the market.

Or in the matchmaker's house, pay attention: the man should try to dress decently and handsomely, so as to ensure the success rate of blind date. Bring at least a pack of cigarettes with more than 20 yuan, because the elders who come with the woman will smoke, so that they will be mature and men.

Even if you are a young man who can't smoke. After exchanging greetings, both men and women can walk and chat in the market for a while.

Attention! After only a few minutes of chatting, you will decide whether to marry her in the future. Then both men and women go home to discuss the next step with their families.

If one party doesn't like the other, it's over. If both sides think it's ok, then we can move on to the next step. Step 2: Go shopping.

After men and women meet, they can go shopping at this time. What to buy? Buy clothes.

To buy diamond rings and cosmetics, usually two people, men and women, take a bus from home to the best shopping mall in the county to buy clothes. The woman buys clothes and the man pays.

Since the blind date is in winter, I want to buy two down jackets, two sweaters, two pants, two pairs of socks, two pairs of shoes and a suitcase. Buying two sets of clothes is yes man, and buying a suitcase is to pack the clothes you buy.

I bought a ring to get engaged. At this time, it's almost time to eat. I want to find a restaurant to eat.

When you take your future girlfriend to dinner for the first time, don't be stingy. At least find a decent restaurant, order at least eight dishes, and order after eating.

Then both men and women can go home, and the clothes will be taken home by the man first. Now we can move on to the next step.

Step 3: Participate. Because of the previous meeting and shopping, the man showed his determination to go through fire and water for the woman, and now he can finally get engaged! When engaged, the woman goes to the man's house to collect money and withdraw money.

At this time, the man's family should prepare twenty dishes and three or five tables. And some dishes can't be cooked in a day or two, nor can ordinary people cook them well.

You can buy it if you use it for a long time, but you can't buy it if you are unlucky. If you can't do it well, you must ask a special chef to do it.

These twenty dishes must be served, and missing one will make the woman's family find fault and refuse to agree to this marriage. After a full meal, you can get engaged to both men and women.

Of course, the engagement should look like an engagement, and a deposit should be paid. Now it is generally 1000 1 and 1 1600, and 12800. 6 and 8 are auspicious numbers, and 1000 1 stands for "one in a million".

Finally, the woman left with the deposit and the clothes you two bought last time. I forgot to mention that the value of two sets of clothes and other things should be around 30000.

Do you think this is a complete success? The answer is no, and there is still a lot to say. Let's look at step four.

Step 4: Happy New Year. Since the previous engagement has been completed, the next step is for the man to go to the woman's house to pay New Year greetings (both are engaged in the Spring Festival and must go to pay New Year greetings before the fifteenth day of the first month).

When I go to my girlfriend's house for the first time, I can't do without things, even if the journey is difficult. During the dinner, the future father-in-law will definitely invite a group of people to drink with you.

Note: this wine must be drunk and must not be drunk. When eating, the future father-in-law will definitely ask you something. If you are drunk and talk nonsense, it may lead to the premature death of this marriage.

Everyone can go home when they are satisfied. Before you leave, your future father-in-law will give you several hundred dollars to kowtow, including 600,800, 1000.

Paying 30 thousand to 40 thousand finally paid off! Don't be too happy. At this time, you should pay attention to see if your girlfriend has a nephew or niece. If so, you have to give them lucky money.

At least 200 yuan, if there are two, you have to give them both, even if they are still nursing their children. Only in this way can you show your maturity and ability.

The task of paying a New Year call to my father-in-law has finally been completed, and now it is the fifth step. Step 5: Give gifts.

At this time, both men and women went to work in other places, went to different cities and did their own work. Don't fantasize about taking your girlfriend out to work together It's impossible to bring someone else's daughter to live together because of your little savings! When you miss her, you can call her. It's the only way.

At this time, if it is a major festival, such as Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival, someone in the man's family must have a gift from the woman's family. If you don't give gifts, the woman's family will break off the marriage on the grounds that the man's family doesn't know the rules.

It's not just as simple as giving gifts. The man can't fall in love with other women in other places, denying that the woman is going to break off her marriage and not refund her money. What should the woman do if she falls in love with someone else in other places? That's a good question. If the woman has another boyfriend in another place, it will be considered as a breach of contract and the deposit will be returned to the man.

As for compensation for mental damage, there seems to be no law. If both men and women persist for one year, maybe two or three years, then I can congratulate you.

After several years of hard work, your love has finally come to fruition. Now we can proceed to the last link, which is the most important and crucial.

Step 6: Get married. To get married, you need to have a new house, build it or buy it.

Buy and cover the same price, about 200 thousand, the man pays. If you have a new house, you have to have new furniture, which is also provided by the man.

What happened to that woman? Some dowries, such as televisions, sofas and quilts, are mostly bought with men's money. I forgot to mention that before the woman gets married, the man will buy her "three golds", namely: gold earrings, gold rings and gold necklaces.

The wedding day is not as smooth as you think, and it will definitely give you a little accident, and then the man will pay the bill. In short, on the wedding day, the man should bring at least 1 10,000 yuan in cash in case of emergency.

There is also a bride price for marriage, which is now generally100000. I don't know, but I'm scared.

4. How much bride price does it usually take to marry a daughter in Shouxian County?

This is an article in my QQ space, which may be helpful to you. Please refer to!

The original intention and amount of bride price

First, the original intention of the bride price:

When getting married, the man needs to give the woman a gift, which varies in amount. Its meaning is different. In the early days, gifts were promised, as well as handkerchiefs and personal belongings. Expressed the consent of both parties and a lifelong commitment. After entering the private ownership society, marriage became a business, bride price became a deposit, and women became materials. In buying and selling marriage, the bride price represents a woman's value, which is directly called the value bride price in some regions and ethnic groups. After liberation, the marriage law explicitly abolished the marriage of sale, but it continued in some places and gave new content. That is to say, after the bride price is given, the engagement is formally concluded, and it is generally not allowed to go back on our word. If the woman reneges, the bride price will be returned to the man. If the man goes back on his word, the bride price will generally not be refunded. The amount of bride price depends on the requirements of the woman's family and the economic situation of the man's family.

Second, the amount of bride price varies: it also includes gold and silver jewelry, cars, wedding rooms and other physical objects.

This has little to do with the region. There is not much difference between cities and rural areas. Start drawing a lucky picture.

Baili Ceramics, 10 1 yuan; The way of Daxing; Then it gets bigger and bigger, and it gets harder and harder to climb.

One thousandth, 100 1 yuan;

One in a million, 1000 1 yuan;

Colorful, colorful (50 yuan) 1 10,000 pieces, accounting for 500,000 pieces, colorful (100 yuan) 1000 pieces, accounting for 6.5438+10,000 pieces; * * * six hundred thousand. Still, still-luxury car, still-real estate;

Three catties and six taels, put it on a hundred-dollar bill and weigh it.

Third, is the sky-high bride price an old injury?

Now the bride price is sky-high. Not just eating old ones? If you calculate carefully, you will know that a set of wedding rooms (two rooms and one living room, 80㎡) are all around one million, not to mention the bride price. How many years does the average worker's family need? Girls' families can also count for themselves. How much money does she have? I mean, my parents are old and have to support my grandparents. To put it bluntly, how much can you sell by breaking bones and boiling them into oil? Not chew the old man, but chew the old man. How to raise children to prevent old age? !

Fourth, raise your arms and shout:

In recent years, with the constant fermentation of the phenomenon of comparison, the bride price is also desperately climbing! This is not only because of the woman, but also because the man shows off his wealth and is very ostentatious. Some men don't live up to expectations. I'm afraid they can't find a wife and try their best to raise money. However, there are also men who really love each other without spending money. What's more, the woman also accompanied the luxury car and the wedding room! This is true love? Still love money! ? Call on the whole society to * * * and this bad habit of selling marriage in disguise!

5. What are the customs, attractions and specialties in Shouxian?

Shouxian custom

Shouxian people are generous and hospitable. They come on weekdays, stay for dinner, drink and buy food, and get drunk. In the event of marriage, having children, birthdays, building houses, moving houses and other festive events, we should also make great fanfare and warm hospitality.

The feasting customs in Huainan mainly include:

I. seats

Seats mainly include seats and tables. In the past, most local seats were square tables. It can seat eight people, so it is commonly known as the "Eight Immortals Table". Square tables are usually arranged so that the seams are perpendicular to the doors. Because the door faces south, the seams of the table are generally east-west The arrangement of seats is that the left hand facing the door is the upper seat and the right hand is the second seat; Three in the right hand face west and five in the left hand; There are four left hands and six right hands facing east; There are seven seats in the left hand, and the person with the door behind his right hand is absent, which is commonly known as "the pot pourer" and "the wine pourer".

The upper seats are usually occupied by elders and main guests. If the visitor is a peer of the host and young or a junior of the host, the host should also sit in the seat. The last seat, commonly known as the "pot holder", is usually taken by the second master or the younger generation of the master, who is responsible for pouring wine into the pot and serving food.

Second, the dishes

In the past, the dishes at banquets were cold dishes in plates and hot dishes in bowls. Counting vegetables counts as bowls. There are eight bowls and ten bowls.

There are eight bowls at the informal banquet. Just put four or six cold dishes on the table. After the guests are seated, four hot dishes are served for drinking. The first dish is whole chicken, the second is whole fish, the third is dough balls (24 in a bowl), and the fourth bowl is sweet soup. Therefore, there is a saying that "the first bowl of chicken, two bowls of fish and three bowls of round". When the wine was almost finished, four more dishes were served. Five or six dishes are plum dishes (depending on the season and economic conditions, both vegetarian and vegetarian dishes are acceptable). Seven meridians are eight, and Eight meridians (E799BE5BAA6E79FA5E98193E78988E69D831331323037) are salty soups (such as egg persimmon soup, green vegetable egg soup, etc.). ).

At a formal banquet, such as a wedding, ten bowls are served. Pay attention to the first ten plates of fruit, the guests take a bite, then ten plates of cold dishes and ten bowls of hot dishes. Hot dishes are divided into the first six courses and the last four courses.

The first six courses are appetizers. The first bowl is a famous dish with a fixed seat, mostly hoof cells and sea cucumbers. The former is the hoof cell pad; The latter is a sea cucumber pad. The second bowl is whole chicken, three bowls are whole fish, four bowls are round, five bowls are lining vegetables, and six bowls are sweet soup.

The last four courses are for eating. Seven or eight bowls are side dishes, nine bowls are eight big pieces, and ten bowls are salty soup.

Third, drinking.

Pour the wine into the pot, starting from the top seat and going down in turn. Fill the wine, the wine is full of respect.

Only when the host offers a glass of wine can the guests offer a toast; The host holds chopsticks to make room for the dishes, and the guests can move chopsticks. * * * After drinking three glasses of wine, the host will propose a toast one by one from his seat, and the guests can ask for a toast to each other. The local custom is that when toasting, the toaster drinks with respected people. A toast is usually two glasses of wine, for a couple. It's disrespectful not to drink and toast.

Don't put chopsticks upright in a dry rice bowl when eating (this is used to worship ghosts and gods).

The host can't finish eating before the guests finish eating, even if he leaves a bite at the bottom of the bowl, he has to wait until all the guests have finished eating.

After eating a good meal, guests can put chopsticks flat on the bowl mouth, indicating "I am waiting for you to eat". The host can take down the chopsticks of the guests and put them on the edge of the bowl to show "you're welcome".

Shouxian scenic spot

Cultural Landscape Chu Youwang Tomb, Cai Zhaohou Tomb, Anfengtang, Shouxian Confucius Temple, Shouxian Temple, Hongji, Shouxian Ancient City Wall, Liu An Tomb, Shouxian Museum, Huainan King Tomb, Shouzhou Kiln Site, Xuan Di Temple and Sun Shuaitang.

Natural landscape Wabang Lake, Dajing Reservoir and Guo Hua Reservoir.

Shouxian county specialty

Handmade straw mats in Yanshou County, Zi Jin-

Gourmet Shouchai Lake Shouxian Strawberry Xu Hao Crispy Pear Vanilla

Silverfish king Huai fish

6. Ask for help, from Shouxian County, Anhui Province

Our place is like this, the bride price ranges from 40,000 to 80,000, and many people marry in Shanghai and the man gives the bride price1.20,000.

But basically, the bride price for Shouxian to marry Shouxian is basically 40,000 to 80,000. After the man gives the bride price to the woman, the woman's parents will use the money to buy her daughter a dowry such as home appliances, quilts and tea sets, which will cost more than 20 thousand.

If the man doesn't want home appliances and furniture, because the road is far from convenient. The woman will return to the man's 30 thousand appearance.

In fact, the woman's parents can get more than 1 000 besides the dowry. This 65,438+0,000 will be spent after you have a baby and the baby is full moon. Gold is rings, bracelets, earrings and necklaces.

These are basically bought when you are in love. On the wedding day, some women want 1000 yuan to get on the bus, while others don't.

If you already have a house, there is no need for the woman to ask you for the house payment.