Qian Zhongshu wrote in Fortress Besieged: Marriage is like a besieged city. People outside the city desperately want to rush in, while people in the city desperately want to rush out.

Many people will face the impulse to get married when they just graduated from college in their early twenties. Just like when I first came home for an internship, I was already on the way to a blind date. My family has been busy dating me, which seems to be a necessary activity.

However, I found that more and more friends around me seem not to want to get married and enter the besieged city of marriage, especially some girls around me. Nowadays, girls are becoming more and more independent and more capable, and they can live well without boys.

On the other hand, what are the benefits of marriage for girls? It is also good to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and find a man who can share the pressure with himself. If your husband can't help you share the pressure, you have to carry everything by yourself.

You should try your best to have children for this man. Once pregnant, there may be no financial resources, and the child will not be reassured by parents. Moreover, you can guarantee that the men around you will always be dead set on being nice to you. For girls, marriage has too many unknowns and uncertainties.

Wealth now belongs to personal wealth. Women can also have their own house, their own car, their own career, and they can also achieve themselves. But once a woman is married, she will devote most of her time to her family. People say that men are the beneficiaries of marriage, but women are not. This should be one of the reasons why more and more girls don't want to get married.

In today's society, many traditional ideas have been subverted, women's social status has been greatly improved, and society is more tolerant of women, so girls will become more and more reluctant to get married. Welcome to interactive comments ~