As the saying goes, marriage is an important event in a person's life, and your choice is related to the happiness of your life. Many people hope that they can meet the right person, and then step into the marriage hall with him and start a happy life.

But many times, the reality is completely different from what we imagined, so we must choose carefully and make a good start.

Nowadays, many families are only children, so when there is no object at marriageable age, parents will start the marriage promotion mode, and the most talked about topic is marriage.

They will also use actions to urge you to arrange many blind date activities. Only when you get married can their hearts be put down.

Marriage requires a marriage certificate, so that you are officially married and your relationship is protected by law. In other words, after you get the marriage certificate, you will no longer be like falling in love, and you can separate if you don't like it.

Therefore, when you choose to get a marriage certificate, you not only need to choose an auspicious day, but more importantly, you must think clearly and don't make a blind decision and regret it afterwards.

I have two friends around me, and their experiences can remind girls who are going to get a license before marriage not to think that marriage is so simple.

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Linlin and her boyfriend Zhao Gang have been together for more than a year, but they are in no hurry to get married. It's just that Zhao Gang's parents are anxious to get married, so they have been urging them to get a license first, which is equivalent to eating a reassurance and hosting a banquet at the end of the year.

Linlin didn't know she was getting married. She thinks that as long as two people really love each other, they will get married sooner or later, but her relationship with Zhao Gang is also very serious, not just for fun. Therefore, there is no objection to this matter raised by Zhao Gang's parents.

Zhao Gang's parents were very happy to know Linlin's attitude, and promised to buy them a house after they got the marriage certificate, and also prepared a bride price. Linlin thought his parents' attitude was sincere, so they went to get the license soon.

It seems that everything is so smooth sailing, but the wedding day is coming soon. At first, his parents promised to buy a house, but they never fulfilled it.

Linlin asked Zhao Gang, "The wedding will be held soon. Your parents said they would buy us a house. Why haven't you bought it yet? When we get married, where will we live? "

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Zhao Gang said, "The wedding is just a formality. Now we are legally married. Now the house price is so high that my parents can't afford it, and the bride price is a matter of face. Save it and live a good life. "

Linlin was very angry and felt cheated, so he filed for divorce. Zhao Gang and his parents thought that Linlin was just talking. When they were angry, they threatened to divorce.

Zhao Gang's mother confidently said to Linlin, "Since you are our daughter-in-law, you should abide by the rules of our family. If you want to know that you are divorced, you will be labeled as divorced, so don't lose your temper. "

But Linlin didn't just talk. She thought very clearly, and now she has been cheated by them. Moreover, they act as if they are determined to eat themselves, so it is conceivable what her future life will be like.

She doesn't want her life to be unhappy. It's better to have a long pain than a short one. While young and rich, she can also find a better way out for herself. So just a few days before the wedding, Linlin took a divorce certificate and ended the chaotic marriage that had ended before it started.

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After this incident, Linlin was very cautious about getting a marriage certificate, because this is not just a book, which means that your married life will begin, and whether you can be happy or not is also your choice.

Tong Tong has been dating her boyfriend for almost two years, and they don't care much about getting married. In Linlin, the man's parents are very anxious and want them to get married as soon as possible.

So I also told Bangtong that I hope they can get a marriage certificate first and leave the rest to them. But Bunton is much wiser than Linlin. She thinks that getting married is not as simple as getting a license, and we need to have the same three views and hobbies.

But after dating for so long, she felt that her boyfriend's shortcomings became more and more obvious. She doesn't want to suffer. She was tired of doing more work or other things, and she didn't expect to walk with Tong Tong on other things, which led to more and more contradictions between them.

If you choose to get married under such circumstances, you are undoubtedly joking about your own happiness, so Tong Tong thinks it is better to put marriage aside for the time being and have more contact.

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However, the boyfriend didn't realize his problems at all, let alone correct them. Tong Tong thought it was just a waste of each other's time, so she broke up and ended this two-year relationship.

After the breakup, Tong Tong also tried to date several people, but none of them were suitable. Before I met Mr. Li, Mr. Li was five years older than Tong Tong and a colleague of Tong Tong.

Therefore, the two have many common topics, and Mr. Li is rich in experience, mature in all aspects and comprehensive in considering problems.

In the constant getting along, both of them are very satisfied with each other. After careful decision, they entered the marriage hall.

Life in Tong Tong is very happy now. No matter at work or in life, he has received meticulous care and care from Mr. Li, and both of them are working hard for this family.

Momo: Women should never think that two people really love each other, so they can be happy for a lifetime, and then blindly decide to get married. That was not the case. Don't imagine marriage as simple as that, and don't get a marriage certificate on impulse.

Because you got the marriage certificate, you are legally married and protected by law. Not the same as falling in love. Break up if you are unhappy, and make up if you are happy.

If you choose to divorce, you will be labeled as a divorced woman.

Although people are very open-minded now, they still care about emotional problems. If you get married again, others will remember that you got married for the second time, not for the first time, which will inevitably make others feel uncomfortable.

Marriage is not playing house. A woman must think carefully before making a decision, which is related to the happiness of your life.

Why do you want to fall in love before you get married, instead of getting married before you fall in love? It is to give you a process of getting to know each other and see if they are suitable for you and worthy of your life, so that you can know fairly well through communication.

Therefore, women must be impulsive to get the certificate, which is a joke about their own happiness.

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