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[Bride's wedding preparation]

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Why is the wedding preparation period a high incidence of breakup?

Bian Xiao analyzed many brides' answers.

These problems are summarized.

It is most likely to lead to breakup during the preparation for marriage.

I don't want the tragedy of breaking up before marriage to happen to you

Maybe you really need this article.

1 bride price

Talking about money hurts feelings. When a relationship enters the marriage hall, it should be regarded as the best testimony of the feelings of both parties.

But when it comes to bride price, there will be differences between parents and husband and wife more or less.

Because of this, the probability of breaking up reached 80%, ranking first.

@ Le Xiaoniu: My wife was a coward when both parents talked about the bride price. Ma Bao man heard from his parents that there was no bride price at home. Finally, we broke up.

Bian Xiao suggested:

Bride price is a problem left over from history, and Bian Xiao can't find a perfect solution. However, the husband and wife must first reach an agreement, * * * advance and retreat together, and never let the other half feel that they are alone.

2 the division of labor in the wedding is not clear

We all think that the groom is completely indifferent to the matter of marriage, and why he was rejected in the process of preparing for marriage.

@ 中中中中中中中中: I will decide the wedding photos by myself, and the wedding will be decided by two people together. I will pay the deposit for the wedding dress, makeup, master of ceremonies, photography and video recording. Sometimes I'm tired, but I don't care if I think about it later. I just want to be good to you.

Bian Xiao suggested:

At this time, two people need to communicate with each other. If the work of both parties is assigned, we can contribute or discuss it together. The most important thing is to participate in this process together and trust each other.

Parents interfere too much.

Because on the wedding day, parents will entertain many relatives and friends, so they pay great attention to the wedding layout and the choice of wedding candy and invitations.

@ Yuppie Girl: My parents said, Oh, look at the wedding candy used by Uncle Wang next door to marry his daughter. Let's be like them!

Bian Xiao suggested:

Set the dividing line of parents' rights and cooperate with parents.

Among the links related to human courtesy, the elderly are most concerned and can be given to them to do, such as wedding candy, wedding candy box, invitation, dowry, four-piece red bed on wedding day and so on.

4 buy a wedding dress

Although it is our own decision to buy a wedding dress, parents and husbands sometimes step in and ask that the wedding dress should not be too exposed and exaggerated!

@ 中中中中中中中中: Let the male ticket accompany me to pick the wedding dress. This may be the worst decision of my life?

@ 京京京京京: I want to try on the wedding dress with my husband. This said yes, and that said yes. I'll buy whatever you like anyway, so what should I bring him for?

Bian Xiao suggested:

When we buy a wedding dress, it is ok to bring one or two girlfriends for reference, and my husband and parents will also give them a fistlook!

Arrange distant relatives

This trouble may only be experienced by a girl who is so far away from Da Nan.

On the wedding day, the bride's relatives and friends will come from their hometown, so it is a big problem to arrange food, accommodation and transportation for them.

Because this great south really quarrels with her husband.

Bian Xiao suggested:

Prepare guest rooms for distant guests, and let the groom do it as much as possible. We just need to tell him something about our relatives' habits.

6 decoration wedding room

It is also easy to intensify contradictions, such as aesthetic differences and budget layout.

@ Anonymous: Marriage is really a physical and mental activity, and it is also the running-in of two people. I had a quarrel with my husband because of these trivial things, and there are two views on marriage. Even buying a new sofa had a fight at IKEA.

Bian Xiao suggested:

Determining the budget and overall style of wedding room layout in advance actually reduces the intensification of contradictions.