The man's parents scrimp and save for their children to have a home, and they are satisfied when they see their children living happily. You also said that it was all calculated for the bride price, which is nonsense. How much do you earn a month? Have you done anything for your little family? I don't know if it's good or bad. We will give the bride price, but it is only one meaning, only 350 thousand, hundreds of thousands is impossible. Even if we can afford it, our son will be very angry after marriage, will not give you a good face, and you will have no say. Isn't it necessary to talk about tradition? If you get hundreds of thousands of bride price, you have to be obedient and virtuous. If you have anything to say, what's your good face? In fact, the sky-high bride price is to raise a lazy woman for life. After the divorce, she still has money to live to death, which is more comfortable than anyone else. Euphemistically called: guarantee. I will not take out my own pension money and lose my self-protection to provide such protection. It is inappropriate and unreasonable for my children to protect themselves and let their husbands' parents protect them. Moreover, we take many cheating cases of divorce after one or two years of marriage as a warning, and the amount of bride price will never give in. It's good that I can stick to this bad habit for a day or two. I'm still talking to my lion. I can only say that the two families are completely different people and are not suitable for marriage. If you think that spending money means loving and valuing you, then your family is giving orders, spending some money to love you and value your husband. Remember, love is mutual! You can choose not to get married, but it is not easy to meet people who love each other. If you give up your feelings for money, you will probably regret it later. Don't forget that women have childbearing age to control your time. If women can't afford it, they should understand each other and marry themselves at marriageable childbearing age. Don't tell me who you want to serve when you marry into a man's house. Now they all live in separate rooms, and don't say that having children is for the man's family. What does it have to do with us to close our eyes in the future? The baby belongs to your husband and wife, understand? Don't tell me that the child is the woman's surname. Please show your ability to change the world order and assume the main economic responsibility of your family, and then make such a request. This concept of marriage and love has ruined three generations and is not suitable for marriage at all. Some women's good family and independence should also be realized for self-protection and personal value, not for the strength of men, otherwise society will be chaotic. How many men like strong women? How many people want to be adopted by their wives? Do you let your husband look down on you in society, which proves that women have high status? Are you happy alone? I am really anxious for those women who struggle with men every day, knowing that they are in good condition but being dragged into an older woman. I think it's a pity to be a woman in my life, so I bought a piece of tofu and slaughtered it to be a man. Laozi, who has fulfilled all the responsibilities of men and women and is not easy to fully understand men and women, has no complaints. You complain about a ball every day, and you are simply a group of dissatisfied women who are neither gentle nor virtuous, nor independent and self-reliant. They can neither be good women nor good men, but they know that they can learn from those pseudo-feminist sisters, enjoy themselves before marriage, enjoy themselves after marriage, and bully their men and mother-in-law. Isn't the world giving you equality enough? All the paths, who stopped your development? Men know that they want to feel safe, but you just want to feel safe from men. Building a sense of security on others is doomed to be insecure, and it is difficult not to be an dissatisfied wife.