1. It's good to bring a notebook when traveling and getting married. Simple and practical, avoiding trivial disagreements and quarrels. When traveling, two people can miss the beauty of their old love. Because of the marriage quarrel, the festive atmosphere disappeared, and they hurt each other. After the quarrel, both of them will be sad. Choose the way to see the scenery, romantic and most intimate!
2. When traveling, you can take your own DV and take pictures of beautiful scenery and loved ones. The old-fashioned way of getting married is the same as making a stylized movie under the arrangement of a photographer. Just watching a person's wedding DV can tell what everyone's DV looks like. The photographer is actually an out-and-out lame director, and all the pictures are artificially messy. When making a movie, being an actor is at least paid. When shooting the wedding DV, you are the photographer, you are the director, and you have to give him money.
The traditional way of getting married is to bow to the guests and bow down to the elders. In fact, it is a show, which means that everyone will give face when they come. You can't lose money when you pay. Eat and drink more, don't lose yourself. In fact, filial piety to the elderly is not necessarily a show on the spot, but a deed. Material and spiritual care for the elderly.
When dealing with Jinan wedding company, you will never be their opponent. They are professionals, while you two are amateurs. It's basically the first time to get married (I don't want to get married for the second time at all). They don't know how many times they have dealt with marriage. Originally, the bride and groom were the protagonists. With the joining of the wedding company, the bride and groom became supporting roles. When the director left, the actors were exhausted.
If you travel and get married, you can have a complete wedding night of your own, and you don't have to endure the inhuman "ravages" tossing in the wedding room. Even if there are too many wedding rooms, you two dare not laugh. You have to endure it, just like two people who break the law are tortured to death in the dead of night. The thought of getting married is horrible, which is not conducive to the growth of the family.
6. Getting married is your own business. As long as two people are happy, there will be many people quarreling. Two people were tossed by the master of ceremonies on the stage, and the people below were like monkeys, tossing half to death and tired half to death. Happy things, torture people to death, not worth it.
7. Send or not, how much can you send to save face and show the depth of friendship? Red envelopes are sent back and forth, which is a bit hypocritical. Family and friendship can only be maintained by red envelopes, which makes people feel bored.
8. Giving out red envelopes is like gambling. If you gamble, everyone will suffer. Only those who run casinos take the water head. Please post, red envelopes-printing houses make money, relatives and friends run around-car owners make money, hotels set n tables-hotels make money ... If you invite people to dinner, you don't have to get so many people at once, order so many pots to cook almost the same full table of dishes, which has no special features and taste, and they all drink to pieces, leaving countless tables and plates, which are messy and have no festive taste.
9. Get married, talk to a bosom friend, spend a good time together, enjoy each other's tenderness while watching the scenery, relax, and enjoy the beauty, simplicity and happiness of life while watching the scenery!
10. Reduce the burden on the family, have fun and save a sum of money. A wife needs not only love but also bread and milk. Saving is actually earning, saving creates value, which is the truth.
The disadvantages of marriage
1. It may take a long time for marriage to be recognized by everyone.
Because it is a wedding trip, there is no need to send invitations or anything. It is naturally impossible to tell people all over the world that we are getting married during the trip. It is possible that you have been married for a long time and everyone thinks you are still in love. A marriage that is not recognized by everyone will inevitably give people a feeling of sneaking around, haha.
2. Old people on both sides may object.
In the concept of the elderly, traditional things are deeply rooted. What is a marriage without a wedding or a banquet? So if you want to travel and get married, you may face great pressure from both families. Unless both parents are open-minded, I'm afraid it will be difficult to work.
Without the witness of relatives and friends, some were abandoned.
Who doesn't want the most blessings when getting married? Sometimes even a smiling face, a warm word, or a hug may make the couple feel extremely happy. But if you choose to travel and get married, you have to face the situation of two people witnessing the marriage alone. I'm afraid you will have some regrets in your heart.