After the bride comes home, her family should prepare ninety-nine steamed buns and send them back to her in-laws by her brothers. Ninety-nine steamed buns represent a long time and a long relationship with her in-laws.
2. Pillow pad
The bride's parents will prepare a set of pillows for her to comfort her daughter's reluctance to leave the family, so that when she misses her mother, she can feel that her mother is around.
3. shoes
After the bride comes home, the bride's parents will make a pair of shoes for each man's house, also called gift shoes. Shoes are a kind of mascot, which means happiness. They are homophonic with Xie Tong, meaning to grow old together.