It depends on where Rugao is. Generally, there are more in the south. If it's not a one-time engagement, it's basically 48 thousand now, plus 4 gold (rings, necklaces, earrings, bracelets) and gifts for the elderly here. There are as many elders as there are in their family. Generally, two Jin of brown sugar and a case of wine are given to parents-in-law, and there are more cigarettes and wedding candy. All the wedding candy of the woman is given by the man. Generally, you have to pack sixteen bags, including eight pairs of brown sugar, lotus seeds, peanuts, stable seeds (rice husk), tea, cakes and red dates. There are also home-delivered gifts, which are gifts for visiting elders in the coming year. Generally speaking, it is also these four kinds. If the woman doesn't ask for it, she can use a red envelope instead. This is called a dry gift. Then when you call your elders, you should give them towels, which the man bought himself. There is also a door-opening bag, that is, when you come to pick up the bride, you won't open the door without giving a red envelope. Twenty-one bags should be packed less in one bag, and dozens should be packed until the door is opened. Never pack more. If the mud is from Daidai, it will cost you money. If you get married next year, you will get a Mid-Autumn Festival gift this year and get a good day and a bride price. Generally, just write your birthday and her birthday on red paper when they are about to get married, then wrap them together with 888 yuan, and call out the date and put it on another bag as a bride price.
If you are engaged, it will be 1.8 thousand plus 4 gold, and then 28 thousand when you get married.
Oh, I forgot that I also want you to buy the bride's clothes. It costs thousands to buy before marriage. If you don't understand, ask me. My fingers are exhausted. I don't think it will be too difficult for you. Generally, the money you come over will basically be returned to you, and the woman will also have a red envelope in the past. Don't care too much about money. I can see that you love her very much. You can have whatever you want and promise whatever you want. Everyone is happy, how nice, if you don't understand, just ask.
May you live happily all your lives!