Where is the custom of getting married?
Many people can't imagine the marriage in Henan. The most famous is the video that once appeared on the Internet: male guests forcibly took off the bride's underwear at the wedding scene, and in the bride and groom's new house, a group of male guests tried to take off the bride's bra and underwear. After that, there were many vulgar marriages. Marriage in Henan is the worst and the most outrageous. Marriage in Yunnan is also the worst, and all kinds of unimaginable marriages come from Yunnan. 20 16, 10, some netizens broke the news that Dali, Yunnan Province is getting married again. A groom was stripped naked by his companion and paraded around the street with only a piece of broken red cloth. This is not a simple marriage, but a very outrageous marriage. There are many marriages in Yunnan. There have been at least 20 cases in recent years, all of which are very serious.
The groom got married, tied up and sprinkled flour on the tree.
65438+10.8, Xiangyang, Hubei, a man was wearing a red light coat in the cold winter when he went to pick up the bride on the wedding day, and was tightly tied to a tree by her relatives and friends. Several men took out a bag of flour and threw it directly at the groom's official. The man was covered in flour and struggling by the tree. According to the onlookers, spreading flour means growing old together, which is a local wedding custom, but it is vulgar to see this scene at the scene. Let the groom see that he has been tossed. Some netizens said that seeing such a marriage has a psychological shadow. Nowadays, marital conflict has become something that everyone hates. Before, bridesmaids were often violated, and it was not uncommon for the bride and groom to be cheated. However, marital conflicts should not endanger life and involve attacks.
When did the marital quarrel begin?
The earliest historical record of disturbing the bridal chamber began in the pre-Qin period of the Han Dynasty, and Confucius wrote in the Book of Rites? Ceng Zi asked, describing the wedding scene at that time and saying, "I married a woman's house, and I didn't put out the candle for three days, and I missed each other." If you get married and go home, you will miss your loved ones if you are unhappy for three days. "It mainly means that families who marry their daughters don't put out candles within three days in order to express their thoughts about their daughters, hoping that their daughters will come back at any time. The family who marries a daughter-in-law should take care of the mood of the family who marries a daughter, and will not engage in any celebration activities for three days to comfort the bride's parents' feelings of missing their daughter. This also reflects the simple marriage customs in the pre-Qin period in China. After entering the Eastern Han Dynasty, with the development of economy and the progress of society, people felt dull and old-fashioned about the old adage "No pleasure for three days", so they stopped following it and started the road of wedding, because the wedding brought festive and lively colors.
Why do you want to get married?
Because the ancient traffic was underdeveloped. Some newly-married bridegrooms want to swear sovereignty, and want to tell those who have thoughts about the bride that the bride is taken, so as to interrupt those people's thoughts. In ancient times, marriage was basically the fate of parents, so the bride and groom were not familiar with or even knew each other, or there was a big age gap. Therefore, in order to promote this activity, the help of people engaged in marriage is indispensable. In that society at that time, everyone had different status and strict hierarchy, so they could not joke with their elders at ordinary times, so they would choose an opportunity to release their nature and get married.