Take Jiangyin as an example, the bride price is demanded by the woman through the matchmaker (sometimes the woman's family will consider the financial situation of the man's family, so she will give him whatever he wants, and the couple will live in the future anyway).
Now, local wives can't afford to marry. 1. After dinner, the man will give her a small red envelope of about 1W (including the banquet). Then we can talk. We can get engaged, buy jewelry for our girlfriend, give a little bride price and a banquet. Then we will get married. At this time, the man will give the bride price to the woman's family. Jiangyin locals will say: It takes more than 6W to send hot water and then prepare for the wedding. Well, it's good to get married directly from other places after having children or even have a full moon wine.
The local people are so proud that they are heavily in debt and have to pay their debts after marriage.
I will get married on the 5th of next month (65438+February 5th). I'm very busy recently. I am the man, and my wife bought almost all the dowry. My wife and I bought all the electrical appliances at home, so it is basically necessary to buy some daily necessities, a headboard and a bucket for her children. It is said that in Jiangyin.