In the first case, discuss in advance and pay separately.
For the bride, most families pay separately. The purpose of co-hosting a wedding is to save money. Both parties can save a lot of money by hosting a banquet together. However, if all the expenses are paid by the man, it will inevitably increase the burden on the man. Even if the groom doesn't care, his family will be unhappy.
This makes it difficult for the bride to be a man, looked down upon by the groom's family, and affects the bride's happiness. Therefore, most considerate bride families will not let the groom's family pay for their own accommodation, but will also consider their daughter's happiness.
In the second case, the man voluntarily pays all the expenses.
The man with good economic conditions is still a hero. When holding the wedding, he agreed in advance that all expenses would be borne by him. Because the woman's home is far away, it is not convenient for her to hold a banquet. The woman's parents gave the fee to the man, but the man didn't accept it, which shows that the man is generous and kind, and the bride is likely to be happy in the future.
In the third case, the woman voluntarily pays all the expenses.
Both men and women work on the woman's side, and the woman has good economic conditions. When the man holds a wedding, the woman is willing to pay the expenses of his relatives and friends, so she contracts all the expenses of the wedding banquet. In this way, the bride's waist will be hard, and the initiative of happiness will be in her hands.
Therefore, when the man holds a wedding, he should not contract the machine wine, room and board expenses of the woman's relatives, depending on the specific situation and the wishes of both parties.