Let me introduce the background of this story to you.
This woman was born in a third-tier city on the southeast coast. Her parents have formal jobs and their families are above average. She has been dating her boyfriend for more than two years, and now she is ready to get engaged.
My boyfriend grew up in a town around the city, and my parents worked as temporary workers in a nearby factory. He also has a brother and a sister. My brother is married and my sister is still in college.
Boyfriend's family's economic conditions are average. A few years ago, he was demolished and given a suite and some compensation, which was just used to marry his brother.
Nowadays, my boyfriend is getting married and there is not much help at home. Fortunately, my boyfriend is self-motivated. In the past few years after graduating from college, he has saved a sum of money, plus the 6,543,800+that his parents and brother barely scraped together, which is just the down payment for a wedding room. As a result, because of the bride price and dowry problems, the wedding was directly stopped 10 days before the wedding, and the man actually called it a big loss.
The bride's gift is a blessing and start-up fund given by two big families to two new people and a new small family. At that time, the woman offered a bride price of 1.8 million, and the woman offered 600,000 to get married. This man wants to borrow money to make up for it. After the woman gets married, let her return it. Results Before the wedding 10 day, after the bride price, I saw the dowry list of the woman. With a house, there is nothing but rice, oil and salt. Seeing that the man was going to fail, he called off the wedding and asked the woman to sell the house to be married and take the money.
This is really a wonderful request. The final negotiation failed and the marriage was not married.
Through this incident, people can see that it is a good thing to break up in marriages with different values.
As the online saying goes: "Sometimes we are not born to meet love rat easily, but our values don't match each other and crush each other, making each other into slag." The contradiction between the above two young people is caused by the inconsistency of values.
There are many wonders in the world. Analyze it carefully when you encounter it. If the values are inconsistent, stop in time.