1, welcome guests.
Generally, the first process of holding an engagement party is to greet the guests. The guests at the engagement party are usually their relatives. When relatives come, they will be welcomed into the corresponding position (pay special attention to the seating in Shandong, so be sure to arrange it). After welcoming the guests, the couple and their parents sat down.
2. The matchmaker speaks.
If the marriage between husband and wife is introduced by the matchmaker, then the second link is to let the matchmaker make a speech on the day of the engagement party, to the effect that he is a witness of your love, and also to let the third party express its good wishes for the love history of husband and wife.
3. Greet your elders.
There is also an important link in greeting elders, that is, the man introduces the bride-to-be to his parents and the woman introduces the groom-to-be to his parents. After the introduction, the prospective couple will also change their minds about the tea offered by their parents, and both parents will give the couple red envelopes. However, the custom of changing one's mouth in some areas is on the wedding day, so changing one's mouth still needs to be decided according to one's local customs.
4. Exchange tokens.
Exchanging tokens means exchanging tokens of love. At present, at the wedding in China, the engagement letter is usually given to the woman. Of course, if two people have other tokens of love, it is also possible.
5. Parents' statements.
Parents must have a lot of feelings when they see their children engaged, so in the speech session of the parent-teacher conference, parents can express their complicated feelings and send good wishes to the couple.
6.toast.
After the engagement ceremony, there is a toast. As the host, the prospective couple definitely needs a toast and accept the blessing of the guests.