My cousin is married, and this is the first time I have attended the wedding completely since I was sensible. The result shocked me! I didn't expect such vulgar and barbaric marriage customs in such a civilized era. First of all, at the wedding reception, we have the custom of disturbing the bride and father-in-law. (The reason may be because of the traditional saying of "picking up ashes". Although it is a joke, people who encounter bad customs will also say it is vulgar. First of all, they grabbed the groom's parents to prevent them from running away on the spot, drew the word "Wang" on their foreheads with ink lipstick, drew two long beards on their lips and put on red clothes. The groom's father hangs a wooden sign that says "I want to light a fire" or "real stove" and wears a tall hat. Mother has a big cattail leaf fan in her hand, and it says "You light the fire, I don't care". After the host announced the start of the wedding, he made some introductions, bowed three times, and then began what they called a "good show". Those busybodies put the bride and father-in-law in a model boat prepared in advance. The boat is hollow and covered with the bride's father-in-law. The groom pulls a string in front of the boat, and the mother-in-law fans around the field behind. These are all done by the parties under compulsion, and they are only the simplest. If you meet a boring person, you may have bad behavior, such as letting your father-in-law walk around the venue with his bride on his back, or doing some low-level actions. My uncle is a very traditional scholar, very lofty and civilized, and my sister-in-law is also a middle school teacher. The noise yesterday really made them and us onlookers feel uncomfortable and damaged their image. But I can't. This is the custom here. I can only accept it. Then there is the bridal chamber at night. The troublemakers (forgive me for calling them that, because they are too violent and barbaric) are composed of friends and colleagues of the groom. They have made preparations in advance, using wooden sticks with thick arms, such as iron wires and wires. The first program of the bridal chamber is that the troublemakers each hit the groom with this wooden stick three times. This beating is not an understatement, and the hands are heavy. The groom is only allowed to wear a pair of trousers. Last night, when they hit my cousin with their first stick, they knocked him to the ground. A dozen or twenty people, each with three sticks, can be imagined. It is said that some of them beat the groom for a month or two. What's more, someone suggested covering my cousin with a quilt and hitting him with a stick last night, because it was too dangerous to be stopped. When you hit the groom, the bride should not discourage you, or it will be even more fierce. I couldn't bear to sneak away when I saw this last night. I deeply feel that getting married is a big event for everyone. Weddings should be very festive and romantic, even if they are not romantic, there is no need to be so vulgar and barbaric. Happy things have become torture to people, so why bother? Is this wedding meaningful? If I want to get married like this, I'd rather not. It may be better for two people to spend their honeymoon quietly.