Aunt introduced a boyfriend of 1.65 meters to her sister and asked her to marry him. My sister disagreed and ran away from home. Aunt said that my sister didn't live up to expectations. It would be nice if a man married her, and she was also picky. Sister is very wronged. Is it a big sin not to get married? Is it a disgrace to the whole family?
My sister got married at the age of 3 1 and married love. My sister is very happy, but my aunt doesn't want to, because the man is just a civil servant and has no money. He only has a single apartment in Nanjing, but my aunt prefers the boy who runs a supermarket at home 1.65. My sister stole the hukou book and got the certificate, but my aunt cried at home because my sister didn't listen to her and married the "wrong" person.
This is a true story that happened around me, which really makes people feel ironic. It seems that we can always hear such a voice around us, "My daughter is 27 years old and not married, but she is worried to death. She will soon become an old girl. What can I do if she can't get married? " After the age of 26, girls have entered the ranks of adults, but who stipulates that they will be older at the age of 26? Girls should get married early and educate their children?
There are more and more female friends around me. They look forward to love, but they are not in a hurry to find someone to entrust them for life. They are emotionally independent. They have desires and know how to pay for them. I found friends around me and some "female classmates with stories" to talk about why I chose to be single instead of single. I hope you can find the same kind among them.
"We have to admit that not everyone can meet love in this life. If you don't regard love as a necessity, you may relax a lot and face life with a better attitude. "
"I can imagine that two people's lives will have happiness and happiness that belongs to that kind of life, but when I enjoy it alone, I can't be labeled as poor and lonely."
"Love is just a condiment of life, but it is not a necessity. Besides, I have family, friends and work. Don't worry, we will meet many people in this life, and it is not difficult to like someone. "
"I am 36 years old and still alone, and I am also very good. My parents are models of marriage, and I long for their happiness, but I don't want to find someone to copy their happiness right away. It's like watching two people laugh when they eat durian, but I don't have to eat durian ~ "
I see the shadow of contemporary independent women in them. They are confident, independent, optimistic and beautiful. They strive to pursue what they want and are no longer bound by this society. One day, they will get flowers and praise.