I remember Fengxian didn't have so many rules, but then again, Fengxian is still a suburb of Shanghai, also known as the countryside (not to belittle), and there are still a few customs. You can discuss this with your husband and let him do his homework. Generally speaking, when the man leaves the house, the woman leaves the car, leaving home appliances without a car, and whoever gives the wedding dress will do. But it seems that the banquet was given by the man and the dowry was given by the woman. It's called remarriage. If you haven't got on well with your husband's family by now, it's over. In the future, your husband knows it's okay, or you can stand it. Three, four, calm down.