Marriage is no longer a world of two people, no longer only considering each other, but everything, such as daily necessities, mother-in-law relationship and family relationship.
Many people can't handle marriage well. Some people have different personalities and different world views. Some people are unlucky and have not met a good family.
Sometimes marrying someone you think is good may not last long. Marrying a United and kind family is a satisfying happiness.
"one"
Xiaose said, I'm really unlucky in my life! Marry a man who doesn't live up to expectations and even has no one to help raise his children. I brought a lot of shit and urine, and now I'm sending it to school, so I can finally relax.
I said, what about his parents? I thought they were just children. How can they not love their grandchildren?
Love a P, Xiao Se said angrily. Forget it if you don't help, and you still have all kinds of dislikes. When the child was born, he came to help cook when he was a child. Later, he hardly came, once or twice a year.
I didn't say anything.
Her husband looks very gentle. After several contacts, he felt that he treated people well. With such upbringing, his parents should not be poor.
Later, I heard from the side that in fact, the man's parents are very willing to help and work can be put down. It's just that the wife usually has more demands and grievances, and the way of speaking and doing things may be more direct, making parents unwilling to interfere in their son's life.
Xiaose is really a very independent person. He speaks straight and sometimes doesn't care much about other people's ideas. In other words, I don't know much about empathy.
I attribute this to the difference in worldview between daughter-in-law and in-laws. It is also an unfortunate family.
"er"
Two months ago, I went to my best friend's wedding reception.
Accompany her from before marriage to after marriage. After staying at the man's house for one night, I saw the local marriage customs and culture, and I also saw that she married a good family.
The man's parents look young, in their forties. Greet us, love our three children very much, and be considerate.
On the wedding day, although parents were busy, they also arranged the wedding in an orderly way.
The best friend is a kind and gentle girl.
Although there were some contradictions with my boyfriend before marriage, even I almost didn't get married before marriage, but the man's sister's family helped this girlfriend make up.
Listening to her report, she said that she got along well with her sister-in-law and talked about everything. In-laws usually go to see the couple, and they are all delicious.
I think it is also happy to marry such a family!
"three"
When I came back with him that year, I thought I was just sneaking back for a day or two. But I never want to visit all his relatives, from grandparents to younger brothers and cousins.
During the days when he lived in his aunt's house, all his relatives went home for dinner. Everyone was very kind and easy to talk to, and took a family photo of dozens of people.
Although I have no plans to get married, it should not be too difficult to have such a harmonious and loving family with him.
Later, every time I quarreled, I felt that I was going to die. His aunts always enlightened me and helped me through many psychological difficulties.
They regard themselves as their own children and are anxious. Even if there is a deep hurdle between husband and wife, they can always cross it.
Auntie, uncle, uncle, aunt, grandparents all love us and our children. Not to mention the spiritual and material support, their brothers and sisters are also full of unity and friendship, and one side is in trouble to support them from all directions.
A family is not necessarily rich or expensive, but it must be United and friendly.
Unity and kindness can help others tide over difficulties, and can also accumulate good deeds for the benefit of future generations.
At least our younger generation, living in such a family environment, feels happy and satisfied. And try to work in a better direction.
Unity and kindness lead people to a higher country, and with centripetal force, life is constantly developing in a good direction.
"thinking"
Harmony is the most important thing, and goodness is the first.
Marry a United and kind family and discover the beauty of life and the beauty of the world from the heart.
This is the greatest blessing of marriage.