When Ermayina 18 years old, she was engaged to the tailor Doba. Doba Bilma is four years old and also A Qiang. She opened a tailor's shop in the town, and the business is good. Doba's parents want Irma to get married early, so they often come to Irma's house to urge her to get married. Every time Irma's parents ask Irma for advice, Irma just won't let go. One day, the Doba family brought a bride price to urge marriage. This time, Irma's parents set a date for Irma and Desi to get married without consulting Irma. Irma heard about it and ran home from the town. Without further ado, she asked her brother to help her return the bride price sent by Doba's family. Irma's father was very angry Irma said to her father, I don't like dopa!
It turned out that Ermayina fell in love with Liu Dachuan, a Han teacher in the town primary school. Although Liu Dachuan was born in the countryside, his aunt is the deputy director of the county education bureau, and naturally there are suitors. But Liu Dachuan is lukewarm to these suitors. He just likes Ermayina who dances in the folk village of the town.
Seeing that the children have their own choices, the two families no longer say anything. Then the two families began to negotiate their marriage, and finally the two families announced that Irma and Dachuan would get married this year 10/0/day.
Time passed quickly, and in a blink of an eye, it was Ermayina's wedding day. Ermayina and Dachuan went to the county seat to take wedding photos. They didn't go home that night and stayed in the hotel for one night. In the evening, Dachuan wanted to make out with Ermayina. Ermayina said, I will be your man in a few days. What's your hurry? You want me to marry for nothing, and this life has ruined my reputation! Despite his reluctance, Dachuan listened to Irma, but that night, Dachuan tossed and turned and didn't fall asleep.
The next day, they went to their aunt's house. My aunt likes Irma, but confided in Dachuan in private. When he married Irma, she arranged for Irma to be a music teacher in a primary school in the county. Dachuan, call Ermayina quickly. Thank you, auntie. At noon, his aunt invited him and Irma to go out for dinner. At the dinner table, my aunt announced that in order to show great concern for them, she decided to hold a grand wedding for them in the county town on 10/0. At that time, Dachuan was moved to tears.
On the way home, Ermayina had something on her mind. She told Dachuan that she wanted to hold a wedding at home according to the ceremony of the Qiang people. Dachuan said: What age, your thoughts are still so feudal! My aunt gave us a wedding in the city to save our face. We can't spoil my aunt's fun!
Irma came home and found her parents preparing a dowry for her. She couldn't help crying. In the evening, the whole family get together for dinner. Irma said, Aunt Dachuan is going to give us a wedding in the city. Irma's father was silent for a long time and didn't speak. Ermayina's mother said: Ermayina, you are the daughter of the Qiang people, so you should get married according to the custom of the Qiang people! But Dachuan is a Han nationality, and it is not wrong for people to hold weddings according to the rules of the Han nationality. Last year, your classmate Yi Ya married the Han nationality in the town. Isn't it a banquet in the town according to the custom of Han people? Ermayina's father said, "Yi Ya is Yi Ya, but Ermayina is different from us.". Ermayina must follow the customs of Qiang people! Irma looked at grandma, and grandma got up and went to bed. Late at night, Ermayina heard grandma singing Qiang wedding songs in the house. The song was mournful and tactful, and floated over the hut for a long time.
Early the next morning, Ermayina went to school, found Dachuan and told his father what he meant. Dachuan said: nothing, I will convince your father in a couple of days.
Two days before the wedding, Dachuan came to Ermayina's home to take the Ermayina family to the county seat for the wedding. Ermayina is hiding in the mountains. Dachuan talked with Irma's father for a long time, but Irma's father disagreed and went back to pick up his parents.
The parents of both sides sat together and talked for hours, but there was no result. Later, Dachuan brought Irma's best classmate Ina from the town to persuade Irma, but Irma just lowered her head.
My aunt called to rush her. My aunt told Dachuan on the phone that she invited the Vice Minister of Propaganda Department to be their witness. Dachuan was like a cat on hot bricks, walking around Ermayina's house.
Then, the village accountant came, the stationmaster of the township cultural station came, and Uncle Ermayina, who was driving in the town, also came. Later, even the primary school teachers in Ermayina came. After several rounds of persuasion, Irma's parents relaxed a little, but Irma just didn't nod.
In the evening, my aunt drove from the county seat. My aunt gave Ermayina a big color TV set. Aunt not only promised to arrange work for Ermayina, but also decided to take Ermayina's younger brother to the county seat for junior high school.
Aunt's generosity finally made Ermayina's parents agree to Ermayina's wedding in the county seat. But at this time, Ermayina and grandma were gone. Irma's brother said that his sister and grandmother went up the mountain.
Aunt drove away and left a message for Dachuan, saying that you would never look for me again!
After aunt left, Dachuan was very angry. He shouted loudly: Irma, I want to break up with you!
1 October1day, sunny, Irma's wedding is still held. It's just that the wedding is not in the county seat. According to irma's wishes, it will be held at home. That day, it was very lively and the whole stockade was boiling. Ermayina is very beautiful in the bridal gown of Qiang nationality.
Although Liu Dachuan is wearing a famous brand suit, he looks listless. When Irma began to sing a toast, Liu Dachuan fell asleep sitting on the stool.