My boyfriend belongs to the latter, and every time I discuss marriage with him, it makes me very angry. Occasionally, I will look at many wedding photos on the internet on a whim and ask him which one looks good. He even showed that he didn't understand why I was looking at the wedding dress at all, and even asked me, "Why are you looking at the wedding dress?" I will refute him, "Don't you wear a wedding dress when you get married?" Turns out this guy said he didn't wear a wedding dress when he got married in his hometown.
Every time I conceive many romantic wedding scenes, he throws cold water on me. In his view, the wedding is just a formality, mainly to entertain guests. I am full of expectations for the wedding, because every time I attend someone else's wedding, I am particularly moved. I especially hope to walk down the long red carpet like that, put on a super beautiful wedding dress and exchange rings with him. Who knows that boyfriends are simply emotional debt, saying that these formal things are not applicable to them, and there is no place to hold a wedding in their hometown and hold a banquet at home. Every time I hear him say that, my heart is half cold.
However, I also know that my boyfriend's personality is really casual and he won't deliberately plan anything. He will feel that almost everything is enough. He seldom worries about anything. He is afraid of trouble, so I am planning and planning everything between us.
So don't discuss the wedding with your boyfriend. We girls don't understand their brain circuits. It's not that they don't care about weddings, but that some people just don't worry much.