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When catering in rural areas, people often sit in their seats according to their uncles' rows. What's the point?
The first one is to give my mother face. I've known since I was a child. My uncle is my mother's family. My uncle will take care of my mother. This idea has been deeply imprinted in my mind. There is also the court drama Empresses in the Palace. Why can Hua Fei be so overbearing? Isn't it because of his brother Nian Gengyao? So, mother's face is on my uncle, and giving my uncle face is giving mother a long face. Should I respect my uncle a little? When you hold a banquet, do you arrange my uncle to sit in the seat?

The second is caused by the custom of mother and uncle. In ancient times, women had no place in the family. After she got married, her family was the last resort for her, and only her brother could represent her at home. Therefore, when giving a banquet, please invite your uncle to sit down. The purpose is to show that the mother has a position in the family and has not been treated unfairly. At the very least, it is for outsiders to see the results (although sometimes it is just to hide people's eyes and ears). This is also a reason for my uncle!

The third is uncle and nephew's relationship. My uncle and my nephew are related by blood, but my uncle is a distant relative (not a member of my family). In this way, my uncle will help my nephew if he has something, because it depends on his sister's face, but there will be no direct conflict with my nephew. After all, my uncle is a reliable helper of the direct stakeholders. Therefore, when giving a banquet, it is also a way to contact my uncle, and it is also a very realistic move.

In the countryside, this uncle is indispensable for many things. As long as this uncle is here, as long as it is my uncle's banquet, then my uncle must sit in the position of guest of honor. Otherwise, outsiders will say that this family is rude, and their fucking faces may not hang up. Do you know what my uncle will pay attention to besides sitting in the guest table when giving a banquet?