Xie Si and her boyfriend Li Bin met through blind date. Their hometown is in the same city. When they met for the first time, they had a kind of intimacy of "seeing fellow villagers, tears streaming down their faces".

After several blind dates, Li Bin had a good impression of Xie Si. He thinks Xie Si has a stable job as an accountant in a well-known enterprise. He not only earns a lot, but also looks beautiful and is suitable for further development.

Xie Si is not satisfied with Li Bin, because Li Bin's head is too short, and she is taller than Li Bin in high heels. What's more, Li Bin's skin is a little dark, and her face is concave and convex, which really doesn't meet her criteria for mate selection.

She chose to stay with Li Bin, mainly because Li Bin's family conditions are good. Li Bin's parents opened two hot pot restaurants in their hometown. It is said that business is booming, and he has made a storefront among online celebrities. And he is the only child in the family, with a house and a car. His parents also promised to buy him a new house in the city.

Thank you for being alone. It's inconvenient to rent a house. The first condition for finding an object is to buy a house and add your own name.

Li Bin's looks and height don't meet her standards, but her financial strength is much stronger than the previous blind date, so she plans to get along well first.

Two people came and went, and the relationship was established. Xie Si mentioned buying a house several times, but Li Bin didn't object. After all, if you want to stay in a city, whether you are married or not, you should consider buying a house.

They picked a good day to go home and meet their parents together. Li Bin went to the woman's house first to show respect.

Xie Si's parents retired, and they were overjoyed to hear that their daughter had brought her boyfriend home. They prepared the meal early in the morning, and thanked Dad for opening a bottle of wine, hoping to have more drinks with the young man.

As a matter of fact, the visit was very pleasant on the whole, except for Li Bin's height and appearance, because her daughter is not bad after all, so it is best to find an equal person.

"You two are getting married. This child is really ugly," Xie Mu said sadly.

Xie Si can figure it out: "Mom, their family has money, and their appearance can't be spent as money. More bride price is better than anything. "

The mother and daughter thought about it when no one was around, but they still confirmed their marriage in 7788.

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A month later, both parents sat together to prepare for the wedding, and the place to eat was the hot pot restaurant opened by Li Bin's family.

After three rounds of drinking, we began to discuss the details and mentioned the issue of bride price. There were some disputes between the two sides.

The local custom is that the bride price is light and the affection is heavy. The range of bride price is about 30 thousand to 60 thousand. But Xie's parents said that both children are outside and there are many places where money is needed. Anyway, the bride price is for children, and the number is 1.8 million, which can also let the young couple buy a car.

Xie Bin's parents were very dissatisfied after hearing the news. They said: "Generally, the man buys a house and the woman buys a car, saying that it is for the children, but our family still spends a lot of money." However, due to face, the dust of 6.5438+0.8 million bride price settled.

After dinner, a few things were decided, such as the wedding date, the bride price 1.8 million, the opening fee of 20,000, and the purchase of a house in full in the city where Li Bin is located.

Having said that, I think Li Bin's parents really spent a lot of money on their son's marriage. Even if the family has money, it should be divided into "reasonable" and "unreasonable".

Marriage between men and women is originally a matter for both parties. It can be seen that all the pressure is pushed to the man, while the woman enjoys success and earns a lot of money.

Xie Si thinks that women are easy to suffer after getting married and having children, and it is best to use money as a backer. Anyway, my parents-in-law are rich, and they are also a family after marriage. There is nothing wrong with money flowing from their pockets.

On the eve of the wedding, Xie Si took two girlfriends as bridesmaids to discuss blocking the door for the groom the next day. They thought of asking the groom for more money, so they thought of the article "Get off".

One of the girlfriends said: "Looking at this online, there is also a fare, which is half of the bride price."

Xie Si looked at it and really said, "The bride price is half 90,000, which is a bit much. Why don't we ask him for 60 thousand, which is a good thing? "

The best friend said, "Then you have to say yes in advance. If you can't get so much tomorrow, it will be embarrassing. "

Xie Si thought it was good and didn't discuss it with her parents. He called Li Bin directly and said that he would prepare a 60,000 yuan fare tomorrow. Hearing this, Li Bin was anxious: "Where can I get you 60,000 now? Don't make trouble. "

Xie Si retorted, "How can I find a job? Everyone else can buy tickets. Why not? I can't even get married. "

Who knows, when Li Bin answered the phone, he was busy posting happy words at home, and the phone was hands-free. Xie Si's words were heard by the whole family in Li Bin and seven aunts who came to help.

Li's parents are ashamed, and their anger comes from this. They don't care about anything else. They just said, "If you don't like getting married, you are really greedy. The wedding is cancelled, go home. "

Hearing this, Xie Si was dumbfounded.

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As a result, Li's parents called on the spot to cancel the wedding. Relatives heard Xie Si's phone call with their own ears, and all thought that such a woman could not be married.

Now, Xie Si regrets, because of his greed, the wedding is gone, the house is gone, and the bride price and the change fee of 200,000 yuan are gone.

Originally, Xie Si despises Li Bin, but after getting along with him for several months, I feel that Li Bin is honest, steady, family-oriented, and very suitable for being a husband. Now that people and money are empty, I don't know what to do.

Facing Xie Si's inquiry, I couldn't help shaking my head.

Greed is the most taboo. Xie Si greedily wanted to keep Li Bin's property for himself, and abandoned the most important feelings in marriage, thinking that Li Bin didn't know it, but didn't want to argue with her.

The fare of 60 thousand yuan became the fuse to ignite the long-term accumulated contradictions, and all the good feelings were blown up at once.

This seemingly lose-lose farce is actually that Li Bin escaped and got rid of the vampire Xie Si. Xie Si should reflect on himself, know himself correctly, and learn to exchange sincerity for sincerity.

So my advice to her is: put away greed, learn to use your heart, let go of the past and set sail again.

Today's topic: How to watch the unreasonable wedding lottery of "getting off"?

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