1. Who pays for the wedding?
1, shared equally by both parties.
If the requirements for the wedding are different, the two couples can take out the same amount of money first and use it to hold the wedding. Let both parties share these expenses after the wedding. However, we should pay attention to the middle. If the man has many banquets, it is unreasonable for the woman to share the expenses equally. Therefore, if one party has more guests, the other party will bear more expenses. That makes sense.
2. Pay for the wedding with a gift.
The two newlyweds will certainly receive all kinds of red envelopes at the banquet, with large and small amounts, but often the figures are still considerable. Therefore, if two couples feel a little embarrassed about the cost of holding a wedding, they can wait until after the wedding to pay with the gift money. Both parties can also review the wedding process and go Dutch.
3. whoever has money will pay.
This is actually very difficult to make a decision. If there is a big gap between the two parties, it is very reasonable for the stronger party to bear the cost of the wedding. But the wedding is a matter for two people, and there will be some complaints about which side will bear all the expenses. Therefore, on the issue of the cost of the wedding, this is sometimes prone to conflict, but when two people get together for love to form a new family, we should stand on the other side's actual situation and be more tolerant. If we haggle over money, it will hurt our feelings.
Third, matters needing attention for two families to hold a wedding together
Generally, the wedding will be held one year before the wedding. First of all, in order to avoid unnecessary conflicts, both families should discuss the specific matters of holding the engagement ceremony in advance. On the selected date, the man went to the woman's house to propose marriage. The families of both sides meet again to discuss the details of the wedding, such as how much bride price the man gave the woman. At the same time, try to make a preliminary wedding budget, list the wedding expenses budget table, and the two sides will negotiate the expenses, so that the division of labor is good, and which one will spend how much? Otherwise, property disputes may occur. Then we have to calculate the number of invited guests and draw up a guest list. What is this step for? Because the hotel should be booked in advance, it is necessary to calculate how many people will arrive, determine the wedding venue, and book the wedding venue, seats and dishes. If both men and women are in the same place, the conflict may be less. If not, this step may be controversial.
Six months before the wedding, we should start to select the wedding company, communicate with the wedding company and determine the wedding planning company. At the same time, the woman should start to choose the right wedding dress, generally not less than 3 sets, sure. If it needs to be customized, the man can choose the wedding diamond ring and the jewelry needed for marriage for the woman two or three months in advance. After these preparations are done, both men and women should take wedding photos and choose the location and scene layout of the wedding photos.
One month before the wedding, everything is usually ready, which is usually a matter of checking again. Determine wedding songs and wedding games. At the same time, send wedding invitations, make wedding workflow table, contact list of responsible persons, wedding items and list of responsible persons. And the couple began to try on clothes and makeup for the second time and prepare underwear and shoes for the wedding.
When two people fall in love at a certain age, they naturally want to marry each other. Love can be a matter of two people, but when it comes to marriage, it is not just a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families. Two young people are getting married, and of course the two families should discuss marriage-related matters together.
Our country's law does not stipulate who will pay for the wedding banquet. According to relevant customs, if the woman caters for the banquet alone, the woman's family will pay the bill. But if both men and women agree to hold a banquet together, the man's family will pay for it.
Legal basis:
Article 4 of the Regulations on Marriage Registration
When mainland residents get married, both men and women should go to the marriage registration office where one of them has a permanent residence. If a China citizen marries a foreigner in the Mainland, and a mainland resident marries a Hong Kong resident, a Macao resident, a Taiwan Province resident or an overseas Chinese in the Mainland, both men and women shall * * * go through the marriage registration office where the permanent residence of the mainland resident is located.