Many marriages have encountered this situation now. Parents have paid for their children and raised adults. Originally, parents were happy to get married, but you are not happy when you get married. If parents don't want to do it together, they can choose to do it on one side first and do it here at the wedding. Now many divorced families do this, and they don't hurt each other! You can also choose to do it together in the restaurant and get your own personal red envelope. My daughter's wedding is like this. My parents' relatives are sitting on both sides. I still hope my parents will appear in the toast. As long as everyone can't afford it, I believe the wedding will be happy and smooth!