Coincidentally, the Bluetooth speaker in the room is singing Eason Chan's "Your invitation is my invitation"
The atmosphere in the room was suddenly silent, and several of us dared not breathe.
After a long time, Ayin sat down and said in a very low voice, "If it were you, what would you choose?"
I said, "going means that she has the courage to face everything in the past, and not going means that she has the ability to give up everything in the past."
People who choose to attend their ex-husbands' weddings often accept the past. And the person who is about to enter the marriage hall tomorrow, whether romantic or not, will be together for three years and two years. Whether we go or not before, we earn money to support ourselves in the rented small house and go to the big city to realize our dreams. Or after breaking up, who will recall these things tossing and turning in the middle of the night, and who will say that they actually love more when they are drunk. From the day we broke up, the past became a photo with a black and white background. After all, it's the past, and we have lost the possibility of starting all over again.
If you choose to attend your ex's wedding, you should go with your blessing. Since you have the courage to face everything in the past, whether it is good or bad, all the guests at the wedding should leave with blessings. You look at the person you used to know very well, the person you have never met, and your face is full of happiness. Just like in My Love, the male host Hong watched the female host put on the wedding dress, and he went to say goodbye. Face this former youth with a blessing mentality, see his happy appearance, and bravely pass on the blessing. There is no need to do extra harm to the people you once loved. When you see him happy again, you should wish him better sunshine tomorrow.
People who choose not to attend their ex-husbands' weddings are more practical. They completely give up the choice of the past. I know you are married, and it is enough to know that you have been happy since you left me. You don't have to see each other anymore. Meeting again will bring more trouble to two people. Will the newly married half be embarrassed by my arrival? You'd better not lose any romantic flavor because of me.
People who choose not to attend the wedding are actually more rational than those who choose to attend the wedding. I don't want to see him one last time Even after many years, I still have a yearning for the past, but reason finally overcame this yearning. They have the ability to dare to give up everything in the past, and their hearts are filled with emotion, but the past has passed, and giving up everything will not bring all kinds of troubles to life.
Different people have different choices about the past. In fact, the past should be the best gift for each of us. It is difficult for us to decide what our past should be like. Life has never given us the ability to predict the future, and every trace of the present will become the past. In fact, compared with some people, it is a good thing to learn to get out of the shadow of the past and live a good life by worrying about the past. When we face the past, maintaining the most basic mentality is the greatest comfort.
We can treat ourselves at our predecessor's wedding banquet to see his later happiness or see what the standard answer is. We can also say no to this invitation, just wish it silently in our hearts, there is no need to make a fuss. It doesn't matter. Let bygones be bygones. We have missed many people in our life, so we should cherish anyone around us more. Time flies, you must be washed by time to be the best.