For this beautiful expectation, she can pay all her heart and fight hard, as long as the final result is happiness.
But unfortunately, there are too many difficulties and obstacles on the road of life, and the society is more complicated than we thought. To achieve something, in addition to our own determination, some choices of the external environment will also affect the final result of things. Even if you are close to success, if you don't think clearly and take steady steps, you may just miss happiness in the end.
Everyone hopes that their wedding will go smoothly without any accidents. But sometimes, some unexpected situations are difficult for us to predict. At this time, as the protagonist of the wedding, what should we do?
Some people say that we should understand each other, learn to be tolerant, and let them have a happy wedding. However, some people say that even if you get married, don't give in and compromise easily, because this retreat may last a lifetime.
Maybe both views are right, but I think everything should be reasonable. Assuming that the other person is unreasonable and only cares about himself, regardless of your feelings on the wedding day, then you can completely re-measure the relationship between two people. But if the other party just made a mistake, then if you don't give in at all, it will definitely make the other party cold.
The wedding is for two people, and happiness is a lifetime. Even if the relationship between husband and wife is blessed by love, we should be reasonable and don't trample on each other's sincerity at will.
I saw some netizens sharing their stories on the Internet the other day. After reading it, I feel very sorry. She can get the happiness that others dream of, but she is ruined by her own persistence.
After losing her happiness, she still didn't feel that she had done anything wrong. Instead, she put all the responsibility on her best friend and said to everyone, "On the wedding day, my best friend ruined my marriage because of the 8800 red envelope."
What the hell is going on? Don't worry, let me take my time:
Half a month ago, this netizen and her boyfriend of three years finally got together, held a wedding and invited a large number of relatives and friends. And her best friend naturally became her only bridesmaid and witnessed her happiness. Unexpectedly, the bustling wedding scene was embarrassed by the words of the bridesmaid.
Because of local customs, the groom didn't really receive the bride until eleven o'clock, although he didn't arrive at the bride's door until ten o'clock in the morning.
At first, the bride's relatives blocked the door of the woman's house and asked the man's house to take red envelopes and cigarettes. The groom negotiated with them for a while and then compromised. Because he knew it was a process, and these relatives just wanted to win the lottery.
Unexpectedly, after entering the gate, the door of the bride's room was closed. In fact, there is no local custom about room doors, which are closed by bridesmaids. Based on the principle of "hello, I am good, everyone is good", the groom asked the bridesmaid to make a request. The bridesmaid said she wanted a red envelope, so the groom took a small red envelope from his pocket and handed it over. Unexpectedly, the bridesmaid not only didn't accept it, but disliked the little red envelope given by the groom. The groom had no choice but to ask her how much she wanted.
As a result, the bridesmaid said, we have thousands of red envelopes to open the door for bridesmaids. There are dozens of such stingy people. If you want to stay with xxx (the bride) for a long time, you should pay at least 9.9 thousand today, but we have a good relationship, so I will give you a discount of 8.8 thousand!
As soon as the maid of honor had said these words, the audience was quiet. Because they didn't ask for such a big red envelope over there, isn't this a money grab?
The groom thought the bridesmaid was joking, so he perfunctory a few words. I didn't expect the bridesmaid to take it seriously and blocked the door of the room by herself and never let it.
The two men were deadlocked for a while. The netizen didn't speak in the room. The groom was forced to be a little agitated and called her to the window directly and asked her what to do.
After hearing the groom's call, she directly asked the groom to give the money to her best friend. She thinks that the big day for two people, if it is so noisy because of money, will definitely not look good. Although the amount of 8.8 thousand is not small, it is not particularly outrageous and acceptable.
She can accept it, but the groom can't. He directly rejected the bride's words, which made the netizens very angry.
She thinks that the wedding day should be smooth, even if others have any excessive demands, as long as they can accept it, it's no big deal. Her boyfriend really didn't give her face and didn't have the sincerity to marry her! If you really love yourself, are you reluctant to give these thousands of dollars?
As a result, the two people who were supposed to have a wedding quarreled like this. Even if the bridesmaid later said that she didn't want money, even if someone came to stop the fight, the two still didn't stop quarreling. Finally, she got angry, but the quarrel became more and more fierce, and she sent the groom home directly. It seems that the groom can't stand such anger and just left the bouquet. What was supposed to be a happy wedding turned out like this.
It took several days before she realized that she was impulsive. However, she doesn't think that she is wrong, but that her best friend has ruined her happiness. So, she scolded her best friend, then deleted Lahei and broke off the relationship.