When the bride price arrived, the man said that he wanted to make a video and leave a piece of evidence. What's so embarrassing about this?
If you feel uncomfortable, don't ask for a bride price. This is the thing in this world. Nobody should be careful. After all, I didn't get a marriage certificate, or two families. In case of breaking the contract, there must always be a saying that those who don't leave their hands are either local tyrants or fools. So don't worry too much. If you two have a good life in the future, I don't think these are things.