My girlfriend asked my family to have a wedding reception at both ends. Is it reasonable for her family to accept her own gift money?
My family is from Jilin and my mother-in-law is from Changchun. She got married last September. The man was more formal when he was in Changchun, and then when I went back to my hometown in Jilin on November 1, my mother hosted a banquet to thank him. This is more reasonable, but it makes no sense if the man does it. It was my idea.