A complete handbook of hotel wedding etiquette I saw a handbook of wedding etiquette two days ago and wanted to share it with JMS. Maybe it will save you some unnecessary trouble on your wedding day. ◎ Estimate the number of banquets in advance. 1. Please reply from friends and relatives. The post should be written as "Please reply", that is, please tell the guests whether to attend. Please indicate your contact number and address on the post so that the guests can reply. If you are considerate, you can attach a reply card for your relatives and friends to fill out and send back. Second, call the guests to ask if they are present, and be direct and sincere. If the newcomers can't take care of many guests, they can be assigned to the members of the Preparatory Committee to handle it for them. Three, the number of seats should be set to "minimum guaranteed number of seats" and "maximum expected number of seats". If 18 seats are guaranteed and 20 seats are expected, then two seats can be added or subtracted. On busy days, newcomers can get 20% off attendance, while on ordinary days, they can get 10% off attendance. It is best to consult the restaurant at least three days before the wedding reception to determine the number of seats. ◎ Wedding Etiquette: The bride table at the wedding banquet is an important part of wedding etiquette, and the bride table is the focus of people's attention. After the wedding activities come to an end, people attending the wedding can sit down and have a good meal, drink and dance. Even if the food provided by the wedding banquet is only appetizers, plus ice cream and wedding cake, the wedding participants should prepare a bride table for the newlyweds, so that the newlyweds can sit down comfortably and enjoy the food and champagne, and they can exercise their muscles on the dance floor when they are interested. Even at a less formal wedding reception, couples should have a seat card indicating their exclusive seats. As for other guests, there should be some smaller tables in the wedding banquet hall so that they can have a place to sit down after socializing and dancing. At the bride's table, the bride and groom should sit next to each other. On the other side of the groom is the maid of honor, on the other side of the bride is the best man, and next to the best man is the little maid of honor. The hostess and the maid of honor arranged their seats in turn according to the pattern of alternating men and women. If there is enough space, you should invite the spouse or boyfriend and girlfriend of the hostess and bridesmaid to sit at this table. However, if there are many people attending the wedding, the spouse or close friend of the hostess and bridesmaid may not be able to sit at the bride's table. In this case, they must be asked to sit at another table. At a formal lunch or dinner, all the guests are seated. All the guests and people attending the wedding should have their own seat cards and the number of the table where they are sitting.