Good education and quality can't be faked. Education and quality seem to be a large range, but they can actually be reflected in small things. A well-educated and qualified person can't fake it. Let's take a look at the following content, and you will feel something after reading it.

Good education and quality can't be faked. 1 0 1. A truly educated and quality person knows how to respect others.

Mr. Cai Lan once wrote in the book Education and Quality:

"Education and quality this one thing, the somebody else all thought from aristocratic families, is actually common sense, as long as a little attention, you can learn. It has nothing to do with your origin. "

Indeed, a person's education and quality come from your restraint on yourself and respect for others, which reflects a person's quality.

A truly educated and quality person will know how to respect others.

There was a friend who was close before. He is loyal to his friends, but every time he goes out to eat, he is very unfriendly to the waiter. Every time we ask him if he can be nice to others, he will reply, "This job should have their attitude, and a weak-tempered person like you will be bullied." "

Every time someone serves food slowly, he will take the waiter away, or accuse others of poor food and running out of tea, and complain that the waiter is incompetent and doesn't know how to add water.

The attitude towards the waiter is always lofty, but turning to the friend is very docile. Every time he loses his temper with the waiter. As friends, we should apologize to others and say that he is just in a bad mood and very embarrassed.

At first, we would persuade him to be tolerant and forgive him, and he did restrain himself, but later he showed his true colors. So, every time he organized a party and invited me to play, I refused.

A person's education and quality are things rooted in the heart, and they are accumulated personalities. None of this can be faked. So even if he is kind to his friends, he doesn't know how to respect strangers, so it's hard to be liked.

In his later years, Mr. Qian Zhongshu hired a nanny to take care of his life.

Because the nanny is rural and has a low education level, Mr. Qian Zhongshu heard the nanny chatting with the nurse when he was in hospital.

The nurse asked the nanny why she came all the way to Beijing. The nanny replied: "The family is poor, building a house, and needs money."

These words happened to be heard by Mr. Qian Zhongshu and kept in mind.

When his wife, Mr. Jiang Yang, went to the hospital to visit him, Qian Zhongshu asked her to bring 3000 yuan when she came next time.

Mr. Jiang Yang asked him what was the use of asking for money.

For fear of hurting the nanny's face, Qian Zhongshu also specially explained it to Jiang Yang in his hometown dialect. Later, Mr Jiang Yang gave the nanny 3000 yuan. Pointing to Mr. Qian Zhongshu in the hospital bed, he said to her, "He heard that your house is being built, and he was afraid that you were short of money. Let me bring it to you."

Real education and quality is not to treat others above others, but to learn to respect others. A truly educated and qualified person, no matter what kind of group he is in, will maintain his education and quality, and be humble and polite.

A truly educated and qualified person knows how to put himself in others' shoes.

There is a saying in "The Weakness of Human Nature":

People who think only of themselves have no hope. They are uneducated people, no matter what education they have received.

A well-educated and quality person must know how to put himself in the other person's shoes, know how to think from the other person's point of view, and have the kindness to think of others.

I once read a story about Kōnosuke Matsushita. When Kōnosuke Matsushita was 80 years old, he went to a famous restaurant for steak with five friends one day.

My friends were very satisfied. They ate all the steaks, so Kōnosuke Matsushita asked the waiter to call the chef.

The waiter was a little surprised and asked him, "Are you sure it's a chef, not a manager?" ? "

Kōnosuke Matsushita said he was looking for a chef. When the chef arrived, he was a little confused. At this time, Kōnosuke Matsushita said to him:

Everyone finished the steak, but I only ate half of my plate. Not because it tastes bad, but because I am 80 years old and have lost my appetite. I told you to your face because I was worried that you might be sad to see the steak left in the kitchen.

Kōnosuke Matsushita has always been called "the God of Management", but he is not arrogant because he is a big shot. On the contrary, I am very modest, thinking of details that others can't notice, and I am very careful with everyone.

Kōnosuke Matsushita not only knows how to think of others in life, but also thinks of customers everywhere when running a business. This kind of education and quality from the inside out makes him respected by more people.

An educated and qualified person is often a person who knows how to put himself in the other's shoes and has empathy, because such a person can often notice the details that others will not pay attention to, and can also appreciate the feelings of others.

If a person wants to be recognized by others, the first thing is to treat others sincerely. Only by treating others sincerely can he get the same sincerity.

On the contrary, if you have always been skeptical and hypocritical about others, you will not be recognized and respected by others.

03. People with real culture and quality can't fake it.

Whether a person is educated or not can't be faked, because the truest performance is in casual details.

I still remember a scene of Andy in China restaurant. At that time, the store was in the rush hour, and Andy needed to help customers order. Her education and quality can be seen by her standing posture.

She stood beside the customers who ordered carefully, patiently introduced the dishes, and the posture of bending over and squatting was more convenient to talk with customers. At this time, she is not a star but an identity, and more like being a waiter.

After the hot search of the program, the netizens in the comment area were all feeling. As expected, a person's education and quality can't be faked.

We often talk about education and quality, and many people don't know what to do to be a real education and quality.

Gillard once said: "When you think the feelings of others are as important as yourself, the atmosphere will be harmonious."

A person's education and quality are reflected in respecting others and being kind to others. You don't need to do anything great, but everything you say and do after you associate with others is hidden in your education and quality.

People who are truly educated and have quality are often humble and low-key, which makes people feel like a spring breeze. Talking to people is warm and powerful, not full of thorns. You will feel comfortable getting along with educated and quality people, instead of getting angry or bored without saying a few words.

What a person does will hide his education and quality, and the feeling that makes people feel comfortable, such as spring breeze, is often impossible to disguise.

In this world, everything has its own logic. Each of us should learn to start with every little thing, learn to respect others, know how to put ourselves in other's shoes, and be modest and polite.

Being an educated and quality person can better meet the future life.

Good education and quality can't be faked. 2 education can't be faked.

Education is great, but what it does is actually small.

The United States did a very interesting experiment.

The experimenter installed a camera in a corner.

Everyone passing by is quiet and elegant, and even picks up the garbage on the ground.

But when the surveillance was taken away, there was a lot of rubbish on the roadside and on the street corner.

There is a saying: "I stand with my back to the sun in order not to let others see the shadow behind me."

In front of people, everyone will habitually put away their flawed side and only show their beauty.

However, see the practice for details.

A person's true upbringing can't be faked.

It is the constraint before people and the self-discipline after people.

Every detail in life is actually the embodiment of education.

I once saw a news.

In a bookstore in Shenzhen, a well-dressed lady swore at a little girl for more than ten minutes.

What on earth happened to make that lady so angry?

It turned out that the wife brought the children to the bookstore, but the children were too noisy, which affected people around them to read.

A little girl was writing a paper and was annoyed by the noise, so she gently reminded her.

The lady was furious and slapped the table to scold the little girl for meddling.

I also show off that my husband is an associate professor and my clothes are famous brands, which little girls can't catch up with.

This news reminds me of a "duck effect" in psychology, that is to say, the lower the quality, the easier it is for people to have a sense of superiority.

A truly elegant person never shows off his superiority. They are low-key, modest, gentle and powerful.

In Taiwan Province, there was a man named Zhuang Nu, who was called "Ci Sheng". He wrote more than 80% of Teresa Teng's works.

A reporter interviewed him and tried to flatter him. He said, "Without you, there would be no Teresa Teng. You are her best teacher. "

Zhuang Nu repeatedly shook his head:

"Teresa Teng's success is the result of her own efforts. If someone else writes songs for her, she will succeed.

Without her, there would be no Zhuang Nu. I'm just a poet, I can't sing, and I can't be her teacher. "

People with rich hearts never write their sense of superiority on their faces.

They don't show off what they have achieved, what kind of life they live and what kind of people they have met.

Because they don't need to belittle others to improve themselves.

J·K· Rowling, the author of Harry Potter, once said:

"A person's true education lies not in how he treats people who are higher than himself, but in how he treats people who are lower than himself."

I'm impressed.

A person may be in a good mood when facing his boss and powerful people, because it is related to his interests.

And when a person, whether upward or downward, can be gentle and polite, it is truly noble.

Zhihu netizen @ Lu once talked about her experience.

Once, she visited a colleague's house.

She is the head of the department and that colleague is her subordinate.

A colleague's family hired a nanny, but the nanny was old and had inconvenient legs and feet.

Colleagues talked and laughed with her, and from time to time they directed the old nanny to do this and that. The old nanny is busy and worried.

When he left, an accident happened, which made him see another face of his colleague Lu.

Colleagues found that the glass dining table was wet with fruit, and the old nanny didn't scrub it with toothpaste as she asked.

He flew into a rage and said, "Wipe it with toothpaste three times! Wipe until you can shine a shadow! "

The old nanny gingerly brought toothpaste from the bathroom, but accidentally knocked over the washbasin, tripping people to the ground.

Colleagues did not even move their eyelids, turned around and smiled to say goodbye.

At that moment, Han Bing got a chill in his heart and alienated her from now on.

As one writer said, "Your attitude towards the weak is your upbringing."

An educated person is neither arrogant in the world nor humble in the world.

I won't feel comfortable ordering my aunt to clean at will, I won't sell my little brother everywhere, and I won't be kind to people who are not as good as myself.

It is sympathy, heartfelt respect, consideration and love for others.

Only in this way can people gain long-term goodwill and trust from others.

Writer Yu once lived in Germany for a short time.

He found a house and felt good. He plans to sign a contract with the landlord.

But the old man temporarily stopped him: "You haven't lived, and you don't know whether it is good or bad. Sign a trial contract first and then decide whether to rent it for a long time after you have experienced it. "

I signed a five-day short-term contract with. Five days later, Yu was very satisfied and prepared to sign a long-term contract with the old man.

Carelessly, he broke a glass and called the old man to apologize.

The old man said generously, "Never mind, you didn't mean it. I will bring a new one tomorrow. "

The next day, the old man came in and asked where the cup was. I pointed to the garbage bag at the door and said it was there.

Looking through the garbage bag, the old man said sullenly, "I won't rent the house to you."

I was surprised: "Did I break the cup and upset you?"

The old man said, "No, because there is no one else in your heart."

Immediately, the old man poured out the contents of the garbage bag, put the glass fragments in a box and wrote with a pen: "This is glass, dangerous!" " "

I looked at it and blushed instantly.

What is upbringing? This is education. No matter what you do, you always think of the people around you.

When throwing garbage, think about whether it is convenient for garbage collectors;

Driving in rainy days, I don't know if passing water will splash on people on the side of the road;

When I entered the gate, I wondered if I would hit the person behind me.

A good education is not difficult. Putting yourself in others' shoes and caring for others is an excellent practice.

I especially like what General Manager Ge said:

"Real education is not looking outside, but looking inside. Look at yourself, you have requirements for yourself, and then subtly turn this requirement into a criterion for doing things. "

Education is great, but what it does is actually small.

Below I write some details reflected in my daily life. Of course, I can't cover everything. I can write wherever I want.

1, respect others' differences, even if you don't understand others' behavior at all.

2. Get along with others, don't always talk about your unique side, and restrain your sense of superiority.

Don't ask about other people's private affairs, let alone make them public.

Don't be too emotional when dealing with people, and don't put on a bad face when you are unhappy.

If you ask someone a question and they don't answer you, don't get to the bottom of it.

6, respect different preferences, don't arbitrarily evaluate what others like, no matter how good your taste is, it is your own.

7. When communicating with others, don't interrupt others at will, don't keep a straight face, and don't keep wandering.

8. Pay attention to keep a social distance, don't pat people on the shoulder casually, and don't get too close to others' bodies.

9. Be sure to reply to the WeChat or SMS sent to you by others. It doesn't matter if you are late.

10, please say thank you when waiters, couriers and deliverymen provide services for you.