For modern enlightened parents, sending two cigarettes and two bottles of wine is almost the same. For more disciplined women or face-saving parents, you should follow Jiang Yan's custom: eight complete lotus roots, two cigarettes, two bottles of wine, two fruits, two moon cakes, two milk (or other drinks), a total of six things. It's called a salute. What should I do if I plan to get married in the near future? Take the matchmaker to the woman's house for dinner and see how you behave!