The final personal recommendation (I have done it there and it feels good) is the price of Shanghai Jinjiang Auditorium (with wedding ceremony and motorcade). At that time, I hosted 36 tables of wedding banquets, with a cost of 200,000 yuan and a wedding ceremony of more than 20,000 yuan, plus more than 70,000 yuan of wine, sugar and cigarettes that I brought with me (I put six packs of cigarettes, one bottle of Wuliangye, one bottle of imported red wine and two bottles of yellow wine on my desk). Finally, the wedding banquet cost more than 300 thousand. Jinjiang also sent a suite to make a new house.
This is my own experience, I hope it will help you! Don't be scared by Shanghai girls!
By the way, there are also jewelry given by my mother-in-law to my daughter-in-law, including red envelopes for meeting at the tea ceremony (the mother-in-law and father-in-law should be separated). At that time, I picked up the bride first to see how much her mother-in-law gave, and then called my mother! I'm a local, and we still have the saying of bride price. I don't know if you have such a custom, but I think getting married in Shanghai is just two words: burn money!