Your parents are absolutely right. You may feel good about him now. But it's hard to guarantee in the future. Might as well find a marriage partner. Let me start with her analysis. First, you are not an only child, that is, after you marry him, you can only have 1 child unless you can afford it. Second, as your family said, there are many people in the countryside (in fact, there are many people in the city, but it is easy to refuse). Third, if her home is far less than yours, it's really like your analysis. I think you can give him a hint about the notarization of premarital property. If she doesn't agree, as your family said, you will suffer in the future. But the last thing about you. . I feel that the couple live, his mother is my mother, and my mother is his mother. Is this foster parent normal? Take it. . Also, if you really think what your parents said is wrong, it's simple. Take him back to your home for a few days, discuss it with his parents first, and don't create a malicious conflict. Anyway, just live like a normal person. Within two weeks, you think that if it is really as good as you think, you can really consider getting married. If not, I think your parents will arrange it for you.