On the weekend before the winter vacation, my daughter is going to experience the "Tengmu Hospital" with several classmates. I vaguely know that this is a "I thought" activity of "looking for abuse". Look at the temptation word "Go into the darkness, fear hits your heart, experience completely different despair, make the most pleasant scream, and scare every hair on your body!" " I thought this kind of stimulation was not suitable for her who was only 13 years old, but I still couldn't help her indecision and promised "Mom, I promise to give you a healthy daughter back", and I learned that the female classmate who was the first in their class finally agreed.

Because buying tickets in Meituan is cheaper than retail, and they communicate well on QQ, so my daughter asked me to book eight tickets. They agreed to the AA system, and the students would give her money. She was very excited when Fujiki Hospital came out. She felt that she had undergone a great test. Not only was she not frightened, but she also "kicked a ghost" in it and got a big red "survival" certificate. She seems to have experienced some kind of life test, and she is somewhat complacent.

My daughter came home that day and gave me 58 yuan, saying that it was the ticket money given by the girl who won the first place in the exam. She also said that other classmates would give her money after school the next day. One of them asked Alipay to pay. I wrote a note with a post-it note for my daughter to take to school. No watch.

The next day, my daughter came back from school and got back the 58 yuan given by another classmate. The other classmates' money was gone. It is said that a boy wants to invite other students' guests, that is to say, a generous boy needs to give my daughter 290 yuan (5 people *58 yuan/person =290 yuan) for the tickets of five students including himself. Unfortunately, the class was stolen the day he brought the money to school, and the money he wanted to give my daughter was also stolen.

Father was very angry when his daughter came home to describe it. He didn't agree with her going to the "Tengmu Hospital" and tried to buy tickets for her classmates. Maybe that boy's loss of money is a fake play for you ... My daughter muttered, very unhappy, saying that those classmates were more reliable and had lost money in the previous class. It can't be fake. I don't know if this is gay theory or her own guess. This classmate said that she would definitely give money, to the effect that it is not good to ask for money from home again, and then pay it back after the Chinese New Year.

Now, school is about to start, and money has become a problem again. I don't care whether I want money or not. I think it is necessary to distance myself from this child who is about to graduate from junior high school. In society, I have come into contact with many adults who are troubled by money relations. For example, I have a relative who worked hard to open a restaurant and made some money, but his parents forced him to vouch for his brother and lend him money to do business, and his reputation was damaged. Another classmate is the boss. At the end of every year, she asks for money everywhere like a grandson. The one who owes him money is like an old man. He compared himself with his grandson ... so he communicated with her on the way back from the movie yesterday.

I asked: What do you think of the money in Fujiki Hospital?

After a short silence, she sighed: I will ask them for it when school starts. I asked my classmate on QQ that day, but he didn't reply to me.

Do you think it's pressure to ask your classmates for this money?

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"Each of us has to deal with many' relationships' in society, such as the relationship with parents, the relationship between teachers and students, and the relationship between colleagues and superiors in the future; Parent-child relationship, husband-wife relationship, and the most important thing is my relationship with myself ... "I really" preached "while walking, and she didn't refute it this time when she was in a rebellious period. I replied, "And it has something to do with money."

You know the AA system very well, don't you? You didn't say you were going to treat, did you?

She said yes.

You are still a student, have no financial ability, spend your parents' money, and are still a "cost center". I once called her a cost center, which is a metaphor of a financial columnist on FT Chinese Network. She calls her children "cost centers".

If your classmate doesn't give you the money, your mother won't force you to ask your classmate for it, because she doesn't want to embarrass you too much. But you know, that's mom's money. After school starts, we should still remind the students who should be kind. If he has no money and is embarrassed, forget it; You can also suggest to other students that if that classmate loses money, don't let others treat you again. If you can't get your money back, it's actually your classmates' loss, and they will lose your trust from now on. And you, accept a lesson-"don't borrow other people's money easily, and pay it back in time;" Don't borrow money easily, remember to pay back what others owe you. "Only when a person handles the relationship between himself and money and keeps a certain boundary can he live more easily.

After returning home, I found an article "If I owe you five dollars, please tell me" on WeChat official account and shared it with her. The article says that "money, whether you owe others or others owe you, will affect friendship, love quality, interpersonal relationship and even people's emotions to a greater or lesser extent." The relationship with money is also a homework for children to grow up.

I don't know if I'm doing this right or wrong.

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