The night before, the groom went to meet the bride. The moment you leave home, it's called "sitting in a sedan chair". After sunset, the groom enters the bride's house, and the Yue family will hold a wedding banquet to entertain the son-in-law and relatives and friends. The only son-in-law who can sit at the first table in the Yue family will be a son in the future. After breakfast the next day, the bride and groom exchange tokens and set off immediately after the exchange. The bride's mother did not come out to see her daughter off, so she had to sit on the kang and pray for her daughter.

The bride's uncle, uncle or brother accompanies the groom and groom, which is called "seeing them off". People who send guests to Fujian hope to have two children, who are healthy and lucky, so as to send good luck to a couple.

2. Unpacking

On the third day of marriage, the bride's father, brother and younger brother went to the man's house. Open the boxes that were moved before marriage. At this time, the husband's family can distribute the wedding cake brought by the woman to relatives and neighbors. The banquet on this day is smaller than that on the wedding day. There is also a simplified unpacking procedure. The person who unpacks the box comes with the bride and groom on the wedding day, which is called "Red of the Day".

3. Occupy wine

Because it is the fourth day of a happy event, it is also called "Hope for Four Happiness". The bride and groom should go to the bride's house together to visit her parents and relatives. The bride and groom should show their determination to stick to this marriage forever. This is just a formality, and few couples can really talk according to the rules.

Extended data

Rushan folk custom:

1, yangko

Rushan traditional yangko team is mainly composed of three parts. The front part is the deacon, who is responsible for leading the dance; In the middle is a dance team, including men's waist drum group and women's colored fan group; Followed by the free dance part, there are duet dancing, solo dancing or running dry boats, playing dragon lanterns, riding black donkeys, walking on stilts, dancing lions, Tang Priest and other apprentices. The accompaniment is mainly percussion instruments, with bamboo, pipe, string and other instruments, which are unrestrained and compact in rhythm.

2. Paper-cutting

Rushan paper-cut can be divided into two schools. The paper-cutting in Dagushan area is rough and bold, and it seems that it does not seek the shape of god. The paper-cut in the afternoon polar region is exquisite and exquisite, pursuing both form and spirit. People use paper-cutting to express their feelings and express their good wishes, enriching people's spiritual life and becoming a wonderful flower of folk art.

Baidu encyclopedia-Rushan

Baidu Encyclopedia-Rushan Marriage Custom