I chose to marry my husband because I took a fancy to his sincerity to me, so I was so determined to be with him. My husband and I were college classmates, and at that time we fell in love. My husband is a very motivated person. After four years in college, he worked hard and was economical at ordinary times. From the family point of view, my family is superior, but I don't dislike him so much, but cherish the time with him. After graduating from college,

When it comes to marriage, my parents agree, but when the two families discuss marriage, they have some differences. My mother-in-law refused to give a bride price on the grounds that she lived in the country and had no money, which made my parents very angry. She felt that her precious daughter had been neglected by her for so many years, so she asked me to break up with her husband on the spot. We love him so much that I will marry him even if there is no wedding.

So later, I often did ideological work in front of my parents, telling them not to care, saying that my mother-in-law really couldn't afford that much money. Actually, that's what I convinced my parents. The bride price of 50 thousand yuan is already the least, but I didn't expect my mother-in-law to simply not give it. In fact, although her husband's family is not very rich, there are still some deposits, but her mother-in-law refuses to take them out. I have no choice but to stay with my husband.

In this way, my husband and I got married without the bride price given by my mother-in-law. After marriage, we worked hard and wanted to buy a house of our own in the city. Although my husband and I earn a good salary every month, after giving birth to a child, the expenses in all aspects are getting bigger and bigger, and the money saved for three years is not enough to pay the down payment. In addition, at that time, I had to take care of my children at home, and it was very difficult for my husband to support me at home.

I wanted my mother-in-law to take care of us, but she refused, saying that my brother-in-law could not be left unattended. Actually, I know this is just her excuse. There is no need for a mother-in-law to take care of a person as big as a brother-in-law. Sometimes if you have a bad temper, you will pay equal attention to your mother-in-law, other people's families and your own children. But with her mother-in-law, her husband is not like her, and only her brother-in-law is her son.

Fortunately, my husband and I finally saved enough money to buy a house, and gradually our life became easier. When her brother-in-law was about to get married, her mother-in-law suddenly gave her 80 thousand yuan. She made it clear that her brother-in-law had no room to get married and asked us to rent a room for them to live in. This money is equivalent to the money to buy us a house, which is ridiculous to think about.

80 thousand yuan, how can it be released easily? And when my husband and I got married, my mother-in-law didn't give me a penny as a bride price. Now my mother-in-law has taken the initiative to send so much money to her brother-in-law, which is really too eccentric. She has never considered it for us, so I turned her down on the spot and asked her out with the money. No matter what relationship we have with our mother-in-law, we will support her, but we will never give in.

Conclusion: It can be seen that your mother-in-law and brother-in-law are partial to you, and many things have not been considered for you, but what can she do? It is her freedom to be kind to whom she wants, but remember that in some things, she must know how to safeguard her rights and interests, be filial, and refuse when it is time to refuse, so that she will not suffer.