In the past, there was no doubt that weddings would be held. But recently, with the collision of cultures and the impact of ideas, the post-90s generation has emerged as the main force of marriage, and many people will think that marriage is just a formality and too much trouble. From the wedding, we should book a hotel, watch the wedding, determine four donkey kong, invite guests, rent or customize the wedding dress. Moreover, perhaps many people don't think marriage is very important. I feel that getting married is not a lifetime thing. So there is no need to show it to others, or many people are trying to give their parents an explanation.
In Chipa's debate on whether it is necessary to hold a wedding, there was no debate. At first, the vote was 46 to 54, and most people thought it was unnecessary to hold a wedding.
The view that it is necessary to hold a wedding is that the wedding is for those who come to bless the guests, while the opposite view is that the wedding is for themselves. If the wedding is unbearable, it is better not to do it, so the wedding is unnecessary.
So who is our wedding for? If you had a choice, would you spend money and time on the wedding with expectation?
Some people say that my ideal wedding, first of all, is that we love each other enough, without will and unwillingness, without flowers and wine, only him.
There are also many people who give up the wedding to understand the urgent need. In fact, there should be many such ideas.
Some people say how to get the money back without a wedding.
Some young ladies also said that they just want to live their private lives quietly, and most of them marry love by traveling. Almost 90% of the replies mentioned the concept of "travel marriage", which is especially in line with the general psychology of young people now.
Some people also said: I am willing to spend money on the wedding and make it what I want!
Because I know I can definitely earn money back in the future, but the money in the future will not be enough for my wedding in the best years! "Girls should be kind to themselves and let weddings and wedding dresses become what they want when allowed. ...
Just like meeting a new person for consultation, I will ask you what it's like to get married. There are many answers: small and fresh, dreamy, atmospheric, pink and tender, like animation to be a beautiful girl warrior.
Wedding or not, traveling or not, marriage always needs a sense of ceremony. For me, I must have a wedding. Even if I travel, it will not conflict with this wedding, because life needs a sense of ceremony, which shows how different this day is. I am a very ceremonial person.
However, the way to marry love is not important, as long as the result is to marry love.
What would you do if it were you?